And it went VERY differently. I am still trying to believe this, but I DO like the outcome.
Anyways, nice looking 25 year old. She opened up to me after we smiled prior in the night. We talk a bit, joked around half the whole time, but we did talk.
Here's where I baited her: she was lifting her girly weights, I had man weights and said "here, use these."
her: haha you trying to kill me?
me: nah later
her: haha I might need someone to walk me to my car
me: oh I'll do that
I ended up doing that, and then taking her for a ride in my Trans Am. No lie guys. She loved it!
Here's the problem: couldn't get her number, she was having some phone issues. But, she goes at night and said she'll be back Monday. How should I go about escalating this?

actually she said something about it when she was looking at my car.

IOI she trusted you enough to ride in your car, big leap for a woman. I can't even get a woman's number after a hour or knowing her for a few weeks after seeing each other.

I have bad luck as well so I will be astounded if I can get this to go through.

SAW HER TONIGHT. We met at about 15 minutes before closing (although I was downstairs for 15 minutes) She's pretty cool. She said she will be there tomorrow to. I gave her some rubber earpiece that she left in the car and she was laughing about it. Then, she gave me her number. I didn't even think about it and she said she got a new phone and gave me the number.
So you guys might know how to answer this one...WHEN TO TEXT OR CALL?

Tomorrow. Ride that wave of attraction you've built, ask her to hang out asap. Girls know about the three day bullshit rule; you're a man who knows what he wants, and nothing keeps you waiting.

read:

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make sure you're not making any of these mistakes.

The link above is a very good start and should guide you.

You definitely want to avoid texting something "generic". Check out a post at my blog i just finished discussing this a few days ago.
http://theattractiveu.com/?p=37

Should help you get an idea of the do's and don'ts.

Sluggler

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Alright, I WILL read up on that stuff later on. Thanks guys. But, while you guys were replying, we were OUT.
I went tonight, she asked me if I wanted to do something tonight literally right before I was going to. So, we did. Went to the bar, talked, laughed, made out, and I'm home. This is awesome.

So we hung out at the beach last night. Before we left, she said she wanted to take things slow and explained she was a little drunk that night. So my friend told me to send her a certain text message when we got home. "I enjoy spending time with you and we can take it as slow as you like. I think you're worth it." I added in the last part, but would like your input on this. I think I'm going to just stay home tonight and see if she talks to me.