So I have openers but I need help keeping the conversation going.
I been up to 5-6am the past few nights reading "The Game" and studying videos on methods/openers etc...
First I am hitting a fancy restaurant and I know a server there, I thought about some flirting with this one. I am trying to find where an old friend works through her, thread
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I need help on hitting on her, she told me where to find the old friend but I forgot the place....
My main target is not really her, but I like to use her as practice.
The main target is at a meeting I am going to and usually she comes to dinner afterwards(around 12am)...
She's an latina, and I really like to get her number.
I could opener her up as Hey, you look dangerous, then the ESP stuff(mind game thing) because I know most guys just hit on her and I would be different.
I changed my tactics completly, last week I was nothing but an interrogator and I couldn't keep the conversation past 5 minutes. I was though, able to approach any girl I felt like, and I did that with the latina last week.
From what I read, I shouldn't be an interrogator, the problem I think is some of these women are shy, I could neg her on, where you abused as a child? you seem shy or something.
The problem is these women just don't have anything good to say, I try to follow the 80/20 rule but these women are dull. Most of them arn't around here, and going back to college at the end of summer, but could be good reasons to get numbers(not seeing them again till next year).
This is why I think PUA is good, leader of men and opening her up. Because how often do you see a female PUA? Women rarely approach men. I need to build rapport/attraction with her.
I thought about after 3-5 minutes getting her number(say I gotta get back to work, ill see you at dinner but lets exchange numbers)
I know a lot of guys interrogator her and rarely get past that. Being different is how I can get through to her.
? Thoughts
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