im trying to get this girl to be a fwb we havent had sex(yet) how often should i be txting her i dont wanna come off as weird/creepy txting her every day. oppinions would be appreciated thanks-MarkiS

Depends a lot on your existing relationship with her. I have girls I can text every day or so, and other girls I wouldn't text more than once a week/week and a half.

How is your relationship with her now? Are you good friends? Do you hang out regularly? Need more detail than just I want to fuck this girl.

We have only hung out twice and first time was good second tooMe was a lil awkward so I think she's kinda like standoffish about hanging out so I gotta build comfort rite?

Yup. So don't invite her to hang out one on one yet, invite her to a group thing and work on comfort. But don't just go solely for comfort, don't want to get "friend zoned". Make sure you throw in some attraction spikes as well.

As Sparroww said.
If some connection is there, you shoud do enough kino so you don't fall in the friendzone.

For the texxting, I find two tactics effective.

1. You text her ALOT, every day, or every second day. But she has to be willing to reply for this to work, and you need to make her laugh via txt. When she gets used to that, you go awol - after 3 or 4 day she will probably send you a text, something like "Heey whaat you doing?/Where are you?" to which you don't reply right away, or you don't even replay and wait for second text which will be more serious like "Why are you ignoring me?" She might even call you in between. You don't answer to calls.

And then, maybe a day later after that text, you send her something like "I've been really busy, but i have some time tomorrow if you'd like to buy me a cup of tee/w/e " It's playfull, shows that you don't give a f*** about her caring bout you. And that will confuse her

2. You keep the interaction minimum - you initiate texting once, then wait for her to initiate it, and only then you sent that random text "hey how u been" again. But this one is risky if she has low or no interest.

I personally find the 1. quite effective. By texting her a lot she thinks she's in control and doesn't consider you dangerous future lover material, but when you cut her off she gets insecure. One more thing to add to 1., you can initiate as many times as you want and not come across as needy if you cut the conversation first!

YOU: heeey hb how have you been?
HB: heey great, you?
YOU: Awesome. What you doing for the weekend?
HB: Nothing much. You?
YOU: Planning on going to the beach/party/somwhere with my friends. Sorry gotta run. text you tomorrow/friday/..
HB: ok by

You tell her you have something to do, you don't invite her with you right away as she is used to being invited, and YOU decide when the text interaction will continue. She might text you before that day, she might think of you or texting you, or you text her on the selected day.
Each case is good. You keep the control AND interaction.

And you think about friends with benefits?? Did you even kiss her? New guys at this are obsessed with having sex the fastest with every girl they talk to. This is a process mate, a journey. I bet you didn't even kiss her. You need to build the proper tools and work your way up until you're better and better. At your level you should think about getting proper dates, being able to at least kiss on the two dates you had. You need to have sex first and than think about FWB. One step at a time, be patient the process is much more important than putting your dick in a hole the fastest that you can. It's like a soccer player thinks about playing for his country when he doesn't even play at a club level. You cannot think about FWB and you didn't even kiss her, let alone had sex with her

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like the txting advise thanks much and yea i think i mighta been a little over the top the first date i tiok her to the movies and just talkeed before hand made her laugh a lot put my arm around her then used one of my lines i say i have small hands and hold my hand up so she puts her hand up to mine ps i dont reaally have small hands. so she laughed at that then i just went in for the kiss and we made out for the rest of the movie and other things... but nothing big then i really blew it on the second date i didnt have like a set place to go she had to be back early so wee got ice cream and had slightly awk convo the entire time i think shes shy and im still working on my confidence after my recent break up but i was txting her last night playfully and we were having a good convo using emoticons and flirting im gonna paraphrase but i jokingly had hurt her feelings :me- dont worry ill make it up to you;) then it went into the whole what do you want and she replied with anything you want(toung out goofy emoticon) so as oppose to taking it down a sexual route which would have been easy i assumed fool around with her cuz she had flaked on me the week before so i said for the first part(of what i want) you have to hang out with me and not be like i cant cuz my moms a bitch,she thought that waas funny and said deffinatly soon. at that point i passed out it was 2am and i havent txted her since. i wanna hang out with her but i will be busy till next week so i think i should wait a couple days and make her wonder what happened to me as oppose to txting her about nothing then wen i do i can say how ive been busy/wanna chill next week.Another thing just a side note im always the one txting her first personally i like wen a girl will txt me first once in a while because it shows that she has some ambition/intrest in talking with me but shes kind of a quiet girl so ive chalked it up to that. any suggestions on what the next move should be would be great that thanks -MarkiS

Well, if you are going to be busy and you won't be able to see her anyway, just ignore her a little. Maybe she will text you, asking "where did you disappear?" or you can just txt her after a week.

But form my experiences, if you have some sort of "friendly" connection with girl and you make out, she will want to keep in touch.

How often do you two text each other?

every day or two days

Perfect. I'd go with my previous post.
"Give her the gift of missing you."