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| username290 | PostPosted: Sat Jun 02, 2012 6:52 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Jun 02, 2012 6:44 pm Posts: 99 | | In this college accepted students facebook group (don't participate in it too much, maybe commented like 5 times in that many months) I commented on something and then messaged a girl who also commented. Our conversation kinda hit off (every few days when we are on FB we'll send a decent sized message (paragraphish in length). This has happened for about 2 weeks with a few messages sent both ways. College doesn't start until August, and I'm kinda into this girl, so how do I keep a conversation going while trying to avoid the friendzone?
PS- I did this with some other girl for awhile back a few months ago and we've become close, but I feel like I may have hit the Friendzone (she says I love you and all occasionally, calls me love/dear occasionally). I like her too, but maybe its best to have one female friend. We used to talk every day, but I've cut it back where I'll talk with her 1-2 a week now (both kinda start and carry over convos) Is there any way to remedy this or just focus on the other girl?
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| Craig1919 | PostPosted: Sat Jun 02, 2012 10:33 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sun Aug 28, 2011 4:22 am Posts: 96 Location: QLD Australia | | I'd probably bring it back to once or twice a week when you message her to draw it out and to avoid friendzone i'd just keep flirting with her, dont get too buddy buddy or she'll think of you as a friend.
And female friends are good to have, should always have a few man. _________________ Its a numbers game, but try to have the numbers in the quality section
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| username290 | PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 12:54 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Jun 02, 2012 6:44 pm Posts: 99 | | Alright thanks any ideas on what to talk about and ask to keep a good convo but avoid the friendzone?
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| Versalis | PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 9:31 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sat Jun 02, 2012 9:52 pm Posts: 1684 Location: Georgia | | Friendzone has nothing to do with time. I've had text flirting for months before meeting a girl out of state. Just don't get "comfortable" stay fun and you have your chance. But bear in mind that Facebook->sex is a rare event. Your odds of connecting in person is lower than your odds of not connecting. So don't pin a lot of hopes on this.
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