I used to be pretty average with girls. Got lucky occasionally, and found a girl who was interested enough in me that things could keep going. My game has improved where I can turn it on when I need it, with pretty good consistency. Just got out of a relationship and now I'm back at the bar scene. I've shaken off the rust pretty quickly and closed a few.

This is my way of giving back. If you've had trouble getting good advice on something before, feel free to ask me anything. I'll try to check in again within a few days, if not sooner.

i been txting a girl for a month now but i have a feeling she is scared to meet what should i do.

Yo... honestly, a month is a long time to be stuck in texting, unless you guys are both honest to god really really busy. There's a good chance that she's already lost interest, or she could sense your awkwardness in asking her out and is more uncomfortable.

Two things you can do right now:

1: Pull the trigger anyway. Just say "yo, what are you up to?" There's a good chance she'll say no. But at least you know where you stand and you can move on. NEVER put all your eggs in one basket. There's lots of girls out there that you don't need to waste a month just texting one of them.

2: Warm her up to the idea by inviting her out casually in a group thing. How fast or slow you want to go is up to you. You could straight up say "yo! I'm out with friends at Club Amnesia... what are you up to tonight?" and if she responds, just go for it and tell her to bring some friends to the club. Or if you wanna go for a slow burn and make her feel less pressure, you could say "cool, hope you're having a great night! you should come party with us one night." That way you're planting the seed for the long run.

And just for future reference... you don't need to text a girl for a month to get her. You'll know right off the bat if things are heating up. If she's being evasive on the phone, you probably didn't make her feel attracted enough (or she was attracted, but didn't feel comfortable enough around you to meet you outside a huge social setting). Getting the digits aren't everything.