Hi,

Basically, Me and this girl laura who is easily one of the hottest girls ive ever seen, were best friends for years all throught school and collage and i always liked her. Then after collage we started going out and it s the best 4 years of my life and then i stupidly ended it as i was not happy had no money and for a new and more exiting girl that screwed me over BIG TIME! but now i have a great job lots of money and a lovely house in london, i was so stupid as this laura girl adored me and would have done anything for me she even wanted me children etc!

Before me she was going out with an older guy who broke her heart and cheated on her and she hated him! then 6 months after me and her broke up she gave him another chance and now they are together..and he is such a douche her whole family dont like him etc..

But now whenever i try get in contact with her she just talks to me like crap and her new guy tells her she is not allowed to talk to me so it is really hard to get her back..

But he is such a nob because he cheated on her before me i paid for it as she never really trusted me around other girls?

Help i want her back!! all her family still talk to me and her mum still says she loves me etc..

Because I want to help you, I am not going to help you get her back. Why would you want a girl that falls for the abusive jealous type? Do you want to spend the rest of your life chasing one girl?

Do yourself a favor, and look for other girls. She's not the hottest girl you've ever seen. I had to exact same problem. She ended up coming back after I'd learned a lot and I turned her down.

Message me if you have any questions.

Yeah you are right and believe me since I moved away from that area and into london and got alot of money i have so many new girls interested but i ust can get this girl out of my head after like a year or so... i slept with about 10 girls since her and still she sticks in my head?

I dont know why i cant forget her and let her move on with her arse hole of a bf but i just alway think about her still?

Bro I hear you. However you are approaching this wrong. Somehow throughout all of this bullshit and this desperation, you have given her the upper hand and that it the worst thing that could have happened. A girl does not want to be with a guy that is pining over her and she does not want to be with a guy who cannot move on. Women want confidence and you need to make them work for youre attention. The best advice I could give you is to freeze her the fuck out. Move on for a while. Date other girls and learn from your shitty experiences. Chances are you will run into this girl again but its a much better look if you havnt seen her in months. If she actually cares about you she will want to catch up and she will voluntarily ask you to grab a drink with her to do so. Time is your best friend and caring about situations that are out of your control is your worst enemy.

Cheers.
-BRAD

Don't do this to yourself man... she has a boyfriend and she's not interested. We've all been there. This was the reason many guys here started PUA.

Its not love, it is called monitis.

Just go out with friends, find some girls ( if you can't have a relationship with them its ok, just be friends), get a new hobby.

There is no way you'll have her, at least for now because , as you said, her boyfriend is a douce. This means that now he is attractive, but in 10 years from now he will be a looser and she will be back to you. Just DONT BE THERE FOR HER!

I hope i helped