i met this girl online. she is older than me, i am 25 and she is 27.

we chatted and got to know each other enough not to spoil the excitement and had a great first date expensive dinner/wine and movie.

she has been in rocky relationships before, and does come across as a good family girl who is trying to find the right person for her. she knows i don't like when people bring up past relationships into their new ones so she was very good and fit my description very well.

went in for a kiss after the movie as we walked to her car (we took her car to the theatre after dinner) but only got the cheek. which is fine, she knows i can be a sentimental romantic so i believe she was only trying to play her part.

that was last friday and since we live about an hour apart and both work we haven't seen eachother since. we text and talk on the phone regularly, she does want to see me again she made that clear early on. yesterday she even asked why i didn't ask her to do anything last sunday because she was free then. i just told her i'm not trying to smother her. she is also busy this weekend but trying to fit me in and i said its ok you can go out with your other bf. and she almost flipped out on me saying she is not like that and if she was going out with someone else she would tell me. so to me if she was younger than me, i'd be sure to keep my eye out, but since shes older and attractive, i don't see why she would bother getting upset over it or even lie if she wasn't interested. but i've never seriously dated an older chick so i have no idea.

the thing is, i'm just concerned maybe she wants to keep me around to have fun and even as "practice" for other dates with older men. she is HB8 and she acts like she doesn't know it, even maybe just a bit insecure (to me something about her maturity and aged temperament is sexyy). she responds well when i compliment her.

even though i am younger than her, i have a better job probably paid about twice as much, have a condo downtown and plan nice things for us to do. her coming over is already a sure thing, but for someone in my shoes how do i ensure she's dateable rather than a fun fling? she calls me sweetie but i think thats about the only way she can feel like she has something over me besides age.

any suggestions, comments, ideas from those with similar experience?

you are two years younger? Thats hardly anything why do you think that's a big deal at all?

Don't do dinners and movie dates to start , that's AFC as fuck.

You seem to have a lot of self-imposed false beliefs, doubts, and insecurities. You need to reduce some of that shit, its a game killer.

I agree with detox75. So what if you are younger. It doesn't matter, it doesn't matter at all..

The only thing that she will judge you in the end is your manliness. Just show her your strong, decisive, and that you can make decisions. Once you do this she will completely forget about age and by this point you won't have any insecurities about age. good luck!

she didn't pass a simple shit test, and i don't care with dealing with her baggage i've been finding out about. i pretty much called her out and she sank fast lol. thanks though guys, it sucks but moving along