Had a look through the forum for this and could not see a nice basic overview.

I come from a very un-touchy-feely family. I feel this even now I am in my middle ages (almost!). Even now, I hesitate to touch a girl (or a guy for that matter) and almost cringe when touched by anyone who I am not intimate with (and right now I'm not too sure about THAT person either).

I'm not just after some nudges when it comes to picking up here. I actually would just like to be a more touchy-feely person. It is NOT an issue about confidence, I am really very confident - I could not have done what I have done for 14 years otherwise, but this is one particular barrier I'd just like to get over, I think.

I think with any particular girl, you have to test the waters.

What I do early on:

- If I walk up behind her, I touch her on the elbow (opposite elbow from the side I approach) to get her attention.

- Make fun of her and then proceed to either put my hand on her shoulder or pat her on the shoulder, assuring her that I was only kidding.

- "Accidentally" bump into her if she doesn't see me coming.

- Get a girl to give you a high five or play hot hands with you.

Click on item 3 of my post here, dont-know-where-to-start-vt133624.html You can view 6 videos on how to go about kino step-by-step.

If you want a written guide, download a free copy of the Vin DiCarlo Escalation Ladder.

There are other kino escalation techniques but these resources are more than enough for you now.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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In my view, Kino is least of your worries...FOCUS on getting that date first.

Really?

Please explain?

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