Ok here's the lowdown, the story is too long to go into all details so ill try to cut it as much as possible:

- Me and my cousin meet up with a girl and her friend
- her friend is super hot, we go out that night all have a great time
- end up getting her number - we text and flirt a LOT and meet up for 2nd date
- in 2nd date, we drink eat laugh, i teach her pool (got behind her and kino etc) thinking this is game... this ones in the bag for sure
- after being so confident she wanted me i tell her something along the lines of "lets stop playing games, i think were good together"
- she claims she has final year of school, summer school aswell , no time etc (i thought she was just making up excuses)
- I end up telling her, she'll come around and realize her lifes boring without me in it

So that's period 1 over, went for about 1.5 weeks long

a few months later out of nowhere she texts me: "heyyyy bla bla - is your brother still single? i want to hook him up with a friend" - i take it as an excuse to get in contact with me, i call her out on it in a Cocky funny way... sending messages like "stop thinking about me" which worked well , her response was "lmao!" Shocked haha. I ended up never replying to her last message, because she was giving too many mixed signals, and i wasn't sure if the flame was dying.

Period 2 over..

NOW, yesterday I had a dream about this damn girl, so i decided to text her just being funny/stupid... and here is the last part of where our convo is up to:

me: "they are vocals for my upcoming track, get my autograph while you still can "

her: "im not the kind of girl who needs autographs "

me: o rly? what kind of girl are you then

her: "Im a strong independant black woman who dont need to obsess over objects or subjects!" (shes an 18 year old white girl)

me: "just submit and become one of my groupies "

her: "heheee too bad i dont like too much trance"

bla bla bla

[later]

me: No

her: No

me: Yes

her: YES

me: OH GOD YES

her: oh god no..

me: fine bitch be that way

her: ... loveee yaa!

me: more than pancakes?

her: i dont even love pancakes that much really!

me: so that a yes, woo!

her: hahahaha


Thats it, i haven't resonded after that - yeah kind of long but want to show how interested she sounds over text, and even when we met up in person earlier - but she gives a lot of mixed signals and I have NO IDEA where to go from here. Last time i was direct it blew up in my face...

Any veterans got some advice on the next step to take? I've built a lot of attraction, a little bit of comfort , and i have DHV'd a lot (she knows im a legit Dj/Producer and a personal trainer).

Thanks in advance all

Dude, no offense, but this is mental masturbation.

Drop the set and find another.

It's on the verge of being one-itis.

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I agree,

Here's what you should do:

Now that you're back in contact don't waste anymore time on bullshit about pancakes! Next time you talk to her tell her to come meet you! Do it by phone, but if you have to be a textfetishist do it within 2 or 3 messages! But be ready for a flake!

If you meet up go for it! If she resists, flakes or doesn't even want to meet: DROP THE SET AND NEVER THINK ABOUT HER AGAIN!

good luck!

Thanks for the responses guys, yeah I totally agree with you, but to be perfectly honest the [MINDFUCK] in the title is just to make the thread a bit flashy.

I have other girls i speak to, but this one is definately the hottest, so i know the situation is almost unsalvageable, but i dont really think much about her - i thought i may as well see what can happen!

you do right in not texting back to 'hahahah', i never text back to one word texts, and nearly every time they send me another about an hour later