I've known her for a year and had a thing. We hung out at work for like 8 months and really liked eachother but it never went anywhere. At first she was calling me everyday for 2 months and I thought she wanted a relationship but she wasn't over her ex. We got on really well and spent alot of time together and she is gorgeous but now we don't work together but I txt her and ring her still.

She is seeing some guy and doing things with him but doesn't know that I know this. She saw a picture of me with a girl who is a friend then she had a friend of hers call me on a different phone asking me if I was single and if I liked anyone. I said I'm single, and then later this girl I like txt me drunk saying *** u bla bla. I asked her and then she said she thought she was txting someone else.

Then she asked me if I had a girlfriend and I said no but I said to her you see other guys and talk to them all the time but never want to meet me and she says "you need to be more manly" and then saying I need to tell her the time and the place and she would date me. I've asked her for a year if she was free and if she would like to meet and she makes excuses, and I told her that.

She said if she got enough attention from me she wouldn't speak to any guys. Why would she say that? I always thought she liked me but I know she has these types of conversations with other guys. It's like she is insulting me, yet I've tried so hard to ask her out up intil xmas and then when she rejected me I stopped asking. She said we should meet up and chat and sought it out.

Bro girls like this like guys who dont give a fuck about them, dont be that good guy.

How can I show her I don't care when she knows I got feelings?

Plus how can you know girl like her really want that? maybe it gets the girl interested but I'm sure deep down they want a loving and loyal guy.

Ok to be fair when I first had a conversation with her a year ago it did pop into my head she was just used to these badboys and I was going to have some trouble and it seemed that she was used to SPAM. I still don't get it though, why would she find that attractive?

I'm not sure what to do, she seems fussy and I've tried everything I can do.

You my man girls love excitement, they love a man who they cant control and keeps them on there toes. If you were watching a movie and you basically knew everything that was about to happen would you even want to watch that movie?, be dominant and only love yourself first, you come first in everything. Poeple always want something rare, hard to find, or they cant have, you are that rare hard to find type of guy and she has to work for your affection.

Block her out, talk to other women, enjoy your life cause she is doing the just that.


How can I show her I don't care when she knows I got feelings?
Simple dont show it, do to her as she does to you.

By that i mean fuck with her emotion be a total dick at time dont go overboard, and act affectionate at times keep it to a minimum only when she does something that makes you happy