Things have been going well with this girl, she's stunning, from Romania but living in London. We've met up a couple of times for coffee - usually under the guise of her teaching me Romanian but really we just chat. I wouldn't call them dates, but they were sort of attraction builders, lots of ioi's (touching, teasing, etc). I was about ready to take it to the next level (though hadn't really decided how - any ideas?) and then..... She enquirer about the spare room in my apartment. Seriously. If she was even remotely interested would she have done that? You don't move in with someone you're attracted to!