I've known a girl at work for about 2 years now, I played it cool I liked her and enjoyed working with her. Thought that was about it.

But recently I've met her out on the town three times, both time she has requested to hang out with me and I have. First two times I literally can't remember(good friends had birthdays) so those two nights were blurry.

The third weekend I didn't expect it but she texted me if I was out, I told her yes and to come meet me at the club I was at. She came with her friends introduced me and i chatted to them while she talked to her old friend. When she came back over I had just got up to go get a drink and came back to find my good mates there who i started talking to. I overheard her say to her friend she wanted me to talk to her, I decided i got her to come to the club so I'd take her to another(without her friends). The night went well hooked up a few times but I seriously can't read this chick.

Throughout the night she might see someone she would know and would go off with them for a little bit and I'd lose her, but I'd just go hang out with my friends before she would text me to meet up again.

Throughout the weeks I'd always been playful and fun with her but just the usual like the last 2 years, like I always have been with all the other people at work. I never saw it coming but throughout the three weeks we were sort of meeting up and at work I sort of became more attracted to her and felt relationship status.

Kicks in that she is going away for work in another country for 6 months.

Thoughts? Do you think that I was just her hook up buddy or it was possible that she was into me the same way? I just think its hard i've known her for so long and I really can't tell between the two.

What would you be doing while she is away? I think I had developed a oneitis for her(been hooking up with people in town but never felt anything like this).

Things I played well.
- Showed her a good night.
- Made her friends comfortable with me to take her away from the group.
- Kino

Cheers for read, sorry for long post + wrong section.

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Going from Zero, to Hero.

Bang her Good before she leaves. Let her be the one to contact you 1st after she does leave!

She will be HOOKED!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

she left today!

I'd been working flat out last couple of days straight, she also had family she went away with till the day she did. failed there :

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Going from Zero, to Hero.

Well chalk it up to a job well done Bro! Get back on and ride! Just know in your mind she will likely contact you, just keep it lite and flirty til she gets back. Sarg plenty more in the meantime, guilt free

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.