| I use MM, but I am shitscared paranoid, that I am going to get called out on some line like: "hey did you see that girls fighting oustide?" Besides I think magic is really lame too, I am never going to to that.
But here is the beauty of the MM Model: It is a social dynamic process, layed out in front of you. If you don't feel things, do the following:
Develop openers, routines, DHV's and closing methods that are fitting to circumstancial things and things that match your taste: the city that your in, the time of the year, the, art you like, the movies you like, the man you would like to be, the food you like ot eat: anything. An opener is nothing more than a question or remark to start an interesting conversation with a stranger. Think about this and you will see that you are not feeling things, because the lines you speak are actually not yours, thus don't communicate your personality. That's why you feel lame: your gaming the girl, doing things you appease her, but you are forgetting about yourself.
I also had these problems and I developed a lot of my own shit. thats is why the A of PUA stands for Artist. It requires creativity for it to be beautiful.
You can start with making things more fitting. For instance: the cube.
The Cube is pretty hard to master, but what I was afraid of, was that the chicks already knew about it. So I "introduce" the cube, before I start. Just to make it more comfortable for MYSELF as the player...
ME: Hey, have you ever heard of the cube?
Target: Yes haha, isn't that from the book the Game, where total loser learn how to say hi to girls.
ME: Well I've heard these guys use it, but the cube is actually a book by a spiritual female writer called Annie Gottlieb (this is no joke, thats where the cube comes from)
Target: oh...
Me: commence routine and keep gaming
haha, see. You just forgot to game yourself all this time. Make sure everything you do makes you feel comfortable personaliyt wise. I am for instance right now into meditation. And I use that as an honest DHV routine. But if I wasnt into Pickup, I would also do that. But then without the Kino probably LOL.
Have fun, I'm sure this helps.
Greetz
Buccaneer
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