we met at work last month, and have been out together a few times in that time, but lately I haven't had the opportunity to isolate her, as she is busy on dates with what seems like a different guy every weekend.

When we first went out she gave me kino which I returned, yet talked about breaking up with her bf recently (while still meeting up w him/txting). When we talk on the train ride home, I neg her gently while offering advice that negs her boy choices. I tell her about other girls I am pursuing (this ain't oneitis, she just someone to practice on) and she laughs at my jokes, touching my arm. We are not friends, as we only see one another twice a week. But she lives close to me, a definite advantage over those other goons.

I don't want to seem needy but do want to go out again. how should i transition? pillow fight day is april 7th...ugh a sunday.

"When we first went out she gave me kino which I returned"

Dont RETURN kino. It's gives her validation that you are interested. Apply the Kino when YOU want to.

"Yet talked about breaking up with her bf recently (while still meeting up w him/txting)"

Shit test - Be unaffected, cut the thread and move on.

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f-close update:

Today she invited me out to lunch and flirted with our waiter the entire time. I wasn't bothered because the dude was pretty cool. She told me how cute she thought he was, and I told her they pay him to be cute. We left the restaurant without saying goodbye.

We normally take the subway after work, but as it was a nice day I suggested we take a scenic route to another station. She told me she had some vodka at her place, but had tutoring obligations. I suggested that we drink it in the park in our neighborhood instead, and so she called and canceled the session.

When we got to her place she kept running her mouth about some writer who stood her up last week. This topic was exhausted when he messaged her a phone # on fb. I drank the vodka straight from the bottle, and told her she was being a creepy lurker. She showed me pics of him, and went on about what a hot hipster he is, and all I did was sip the vodka and call her desperate.

Then I closed his profile and opened a website with a bunch of lizards in costumes. By now she was resting her head on my shoulder. She asked me about my roommates, then tried to wrestle my phone from me. She retreated to her bed, and I followed. Without kissing we inched closer and closer. She started to grind on me, and I felt her up. Then she leaped out of bed.

"That's it. We have to fuck." I had yet to kiss her!

After fucking she confessed that she never expected us to ever have sex. I told her that I knew we were going to fuck as soon as we met. This surprised her, as she couldn't recall the moment. I threw another curveball and said I was gay, but not a homosexual. That I make women feel comfortable like a gay man does, yet still have plans to fuck them. She admitted to being played, and then fucked me raw, and then again in the shower.

Looking forward to work tmrw