Hello guys!

I've been gone from the community cuz of a GF for 4 moths but now we have broke up now so i'm back!

When i'm out in the set i open and are able to isolate my target but when it's time for kino escalation i don't have "good" kino to use cuz eveything feels so revealing of my real interest.

Can someine help me on this one?

Cheers lads! /Zutt

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You sound like a over analyzer of every situation. You just came out of a relationship are you over it is it controlling your thought process you must make sure you are in control of your thoughts and emotions. You found a girl before you can find one again. Show interest and value and be the alpha you know you are. Study the stealth pickup it will bring your instincts up and practice on all girls even unattractive ones. Its all about your confidence when it is where you want it to be you will be back in control.

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stop being concerned with hiding your interest, it will only fuck you over and leave you suseptable to girls that will lead you on cause they like you but don't want to sleep with you

if you are at a point where you can approach en mass and you are trying to get things to move forward but but keep finding sticking points, then simply stop wasting time on girls that are not down, and start weeding them out, show your interest, be shameless about it,

your kino should be a test of compliance, rather then some random magical set of hidden routines to hide that you like a girl, she should know you like her, and be reciprocating, if she is not compliant towards your advances (kino compliance test), then she fails the test, and what that tells you is that it is time to next her, and move onto a girl that is more compliant

and kino will accomplish two things,

-show how physically comfortable she is with you, and how compliant she is willing to be
(basically will reveal to you her level of sexual availability to you)

-can raise buying temp, as soon as the kino becomes meaningful
(if she is getting horny because you are not afraid if she rejects you or not, then you are doing it right, get close, and see what she is comfortable with, if she won't let you escalate, then don't waste your time on her, if you can't put your arm around her shoulder, there is a really good chance you can't put your dick inside her either, if she is reciprocating that is a good sign)


if you are just new to physical compliance testing, chief wrote a guide in the lounge that describes what an escalation ladder is, you can also google vin dicarlo escalation ladder (there are alot of other ladders out there, but they basically all give the same message, test for compliance and increase it (escalate it) step by step so it is more natural and comfortable)

chiefs-guide-to-outer-game-vt75887.html

Good! That's exactly the kind of kino you should use!

You can get even more physical in private, but even in public, touch away! Revealing interest is a good thing.

I just thought I would reiterate what some of the guys here have alluded to or said outright. Kino is not some magical tool to give you some sort of mind control over her. Physical touch increases oxytocin levels in women which causes them to bond and get horny. Something I learned entirely on my own is that indirect game is only useful in circumstances where you are not supposed to "fraternize" with someone(aka, you're married, she's married, you're at work, etc.) Direct game is much better when you're in a bar in a situation where it is expected that you're hitting on them.

So just touch her on the elbow and say,"what's up hottie?!" I mean, it really is that simple. If she likes, she will try to make the conversation continue...no matter how dumb it sounds.

I was at a bar the other weekend. A girl and her friends were just talking. I let my elbow touch her waist. We weren't even looking at eachother. I turned and said "nice to meet you", she responded in likeness enthusiastically. It was so retarded, but it is an example of how little reason you have to have. They know what's going on.

You'll learn alot more judging the woman's reaction. You'll start to pickup on these subtle cues that indicate she likes you but doesn't want to feel like a slut. If you do things directly, though, she will have to make a decision. It's more pressure, but it's much more effective and natural. Do it in front of her friends. What's the worst that could happen? She embarrasses you? Be shameless - SHAMELESS. It's hot.