Sup guys,

So here is the story. There is this really shy and fairly insecure HB7 in my class. I know she is interested in me, but I have no idea how to game her and break through that insecurity.

I'm a big fan of cocky funny and teasing. But for some reason she often doesn't get that I'm teasing, she gets all scared that I'm actually serious and yeah....
it's the first time I've encountered this and I don't really know what to do.

Negging her about not having a sense of humor doesn't seem like a good idea, with her being insecure and shit. And telling her that I am actually kidding every time sounds pretty AFC.

You guys got game plans or ideas to break through that insecurity and uptight attitude and get her comfortable with me?

Looking forward to your replies

I've dated a couple of these and is currently gaming one.

Shy girls are my favorite.

The key is dominance. You must be the one who leads because she certainly wont. Also, the point of negging and cocky funny, most often, is to bring down the girls self esteem so that she will need approval from you. Shy girls esteem is generally already very low and therefore you will just be hurting her if you do this. What I find works is instead intensity. Few words but strong connection through kino and eye contact. You must be that special guy that doesn't make her feel like crap, like the other guys do.

To get her to invest in you though, the best way is to get her to start talking. Shy girls don't talk much. When they do though it becomes special to them. Open her up and get her to agree to a date with you.

Now your wondering how you're supposed to do that. Wouldn't it be totally awkward to open someone in ones class? Can't she open me? Nope, you must talk to her, get her attention and make sure you have a sexual vibe. This last one can be hard to establish with shy girls.

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Hello brother.

First of all, I'm glad to see that Swedishguy here is a PUA who specializes in shy girls. Frankly, it's only my second time to sarge a shy girl. They're shy for a reason. They'll tell you the reason mostly through hints. Swedishguy has a good plan I think so I won't delve on that. What I'm going to give you instead is how to trigger her primal instincts to make her comfortable when you're around.

WEAR A PERFUME AND STICK WITH IT. Product researchers discovered that a certain product is better remembered among the shelves when it has a scent. Scents increase memory. The goal is to condition this shy girl subtly to your presence and associate it with memorable (and hopefully) pleasurable experiences for her. You can start with a vanilla-based scent to trigger familiar feelings from her childhood. If you can trigger her into intrusive thinking mode and you dominate her thoughts associating you with feel good feelings, then you're in.

GO HIIT. If you don't have a life threatening medical condition, go high intensity interval training on cardio and strength. This will drive up your levels of hormones that subconsciously attract women. Researchers discovered with prairie vole experiments that when a male prairie vole is placed near a female prairie vole, the physiology of the female prairie vole changes. This makes her fall in love with the male. The higher the sexual hormones of the male prairie vole, the more likely the female prairie vole falls in love with this male. Your great advantage is that this shy girl is probably less often approached by your testosterone-laden male classmates who are into football, martial arts, or basketball. You can condition her with your sexual hormones by getting near her. Build up your hormones so it goes high enough, that she'll feel comfortable around you. Personally, the not-so-shy girls I'm sarging can't help themselves but touch my biceps, shoulders, stomach (I still can't call it abs ), and forearm right after I come out of my gym workout at night or even right after my morning sprints. You'll notice the difference in the reaction of girls around you if you've learned enough body language.

WEAR RED. The red color shoots up the sexual attractiveness of males by a significant percentage. I think it's around 20% if I'm not mistaken. I haven't read the scientific journal for a while so I can't remember the exact figure. The research says that girls are more likely to want to kiss you when you wear red. I've already tested this and average girls I don't know open me with a lame "Happy birthday" while the not so shy ones say something like, "My friend there who left awhile ago said that you're so handsome." When I'm wearing red, the shy girl I'm sarging mentions once and so often that I'm handsome. She can't help it. It's just too bad that I can't get into a proper kino with her yet.

WATCH RIDLEY SCOTT AND MR. BEAN MOVIES. Black Hawk Down or Gladiator will drive up your male sexual hormones that attract women. Meanwhile, Mr. Bean will give you a laid back vibe. Laughter is good for your physiology and hence, overall attractiveness. Stay away from horror films that scare you or romantic films that will trigger your hormones that are associated with femininity.

These four pointers are not surefire ways to get her comfortable. They'll just increase the percentage of your attractiveness. It's simply leveling up with the easy artifacts using science to your advantage.

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Thx guys.

@Swedishguy Yeah I figured cocky and negging is counter-productive. I do love to tease though so I hope she loosens up there. I'll try taking the lead more. She has shown some interest though. Like we got this big research assignment to do in university library and she asked me to come along. When I agreed she used the opportunity to give me her number and then we got into a convo about texting and how none of her friends really text anymore. So I was like "I personally enjoy texting quite a bit. You can text me anytime, don't be shy, I usually answer" that was a week ago. Yesterday she actually did start texting so thats an IOI

@Hellhound I actually do all those points I have this one perfume I love and have been wearing for quite a while. I've been working out for 4 years and I've got a really fit and muscular body (not overly-muscular like a bodybuilder, but my BMI is right where it needs to be). I have some red clothes, and yeah the days I wear red, my interactions with women are way better . By the way, I'm in university studying french and english so my class is 90% women, I'm already the most alpha of my class there are no jocks or anything like that, only feminine-type dudes.

You lucky sonafabitch. You'll have a fuckfest in your hands!

I just figured though that you're the choosy type.

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haha as far as I'm concerned then your IN. Call her anytime you want and set up a date. I'm a bit curious though if she really is a shy girl as she asked for your number. Currently there are some girls in my school that are trying to make me notice then and the farthest they have gone is insisting that they get to dance with me in gymnastics and showing their boobs to my chest (and my face last night actually).

But I digress. Good job. However, now comes the hard part. Shy girls don't have much to do on the spare time so setting up a date won't be much of a hazard. What I find is hard though is maintaining a sexual vibe since they become so talky when your alone (probably because of lack of confidence on their part). So make sure you have a lot of eye contact, kino etc. The goal is to not make her feel confused about wanting you (as you might to want to with party girls). The reason for this is that everything goes so smoothly when shes happy with you and she really doesn't have much else in her life (now I'm being crude though).

Overtexting is probably your worst enemy against your sexual vibe.

Be sure to give an update

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@Hellhound yeah I'm pretty picky

@Swedishguy well she asked for my number through facebook. She's pretty talkative on there too, but in real life shes shy as hell. That's both the good and the bad of the internet I guess. It allows shy people to open in the safety of their home/room, but then when you talk to them in real life their shield is up and they act differently.

I agree with you completely. This is my personality talking now but I'd take your relationship out of the internet and texting as soon as possible. It's a dead end as far as attraction is concerned. I can see your reluctance to being risky and forward with a girl in your class but I'll tell you something low risk that has worked for me.

On some recess when your feeling good and have high value, tell her to accompany you to the cafeteria to grab some coffe, you're a bit tired you see. Get her to open up and lose up. If all goes well you can ask her to come hang with you after school or on a sunday (don't schedule with her to, it need to be spontaneous so that she doesn't start to over think it). I haven't read it myself but I've heard that 60years has some good techniques for getting women in casual a environment.

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I agree, with shy girls you have to handle it a little differently.

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Strange question: How do you guys wear your reds in your outfit , do you wear a shirt? scarf ? shoes ?

I generally wear black , blue , green clothing and I'm finding it hard to add red to my entourage of clothing.

So yeah advice about how to add a subtle red to my style

Although earlier this year and late last year had hair as red as ADOBE reader colour(super bright red) and I noticed how when I approached some one friends or strangers they would comment on hair ergo made opener .

Intresting never heard about this red thing lol. I will have to try it.

Just wondering what other colours match with red? Red top - black/white pants?

any info on what other colours do? i only got like 1 fuckin red shirt lmao

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Back to the shy girl.

Any ideas on what would be a good first date?
Preferably cost-free, because I'm going to New York next week (f****ing excited about that ) so I'd rather keep my cash to spend there. I don't mean to sound like a cheap bastard or anything, I usually don't give a shit about money, but this is an exception, New York is an expensive city-trip for a college guy like me

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