So I went out with this chic who is an absolute stunner. 9.5 No BS. She's married and just "opened" her marriage and has a whole set of beliefs. She wants to find a "lover" who will love her completely, etc. and accept that she's in this other marriage. It's a very bizarre situation.

So there was definitely chemistry but she turned her head when I went to kiss her. I asked her if she felt anything and she said "we just only met - how could I know if there is anything there? But I will see you again and I do find you attractive."

So she's definitely a tough nut to crack but we talked a bit about sex and I am 100% sure she's a total nympho. Question is, how do I escalate with someone like this? It seems like she is fully in control of her impulses and is going to want to take the slow boat. I don't mind 3-4 dates but no more.

Any insight is welcome.