I saw this cute girl in the office, probably a 9. I manage to do PUA with her and eventually have a #close... During night time, I texted her how she was but unresponsive. We are connected on SPAM, I chatted with her, but she is very thrifty with her answers. She put "Do not Disturb" status.

Next day, I invited her over lunch, she said yes but says she had a friend to come. Well, not a problem with me. We did 3 lunch together. Problem is I cannot escalate the situation. Every time we do have lunch together, if her bestfriend is not around, her guy married teammate will join us (f**k!). I loss my way.

Now, I am having a second thought of whether inviting her to lunch, because I might end up a stalker, or worst be placed in Friend Zone.

Any idea guys?

PS
I did manage to be qualify by her bestfriend.

Ok heres the deal, try to talk to her through Facebook, texts, SPAM, or whatever you feel works best. Try to connect with her, and if she's unresponsive you should forget about her. However if she is responsive you can ask her to go to a movie, a concert or whatever you like. Be sure to say it somewhat like this. "Well hey you and I should go see this movie together." You see how when you say you and I your stating just you and her and she will respect that. And NEVER ASK HER IF SHE WANTS TO GO! Thats a no no. Even if she brings someone along try and talk to her friend more than her, or try and have fun talking to the both of them. If you simply give her friend more attention she might restrain from bringing them again. Just remember to have fun, and never be hung up on one girl because there are too many girls in the world to be hung up on one. 60% of the world's population is females, explore your options.

Hope i helped

thanks bro... I think I know what you mean... be aggressive sometimes... will try that one on weekend, if still unresponsive, probably will change subject for the main time...