Long story ... met a girl a few months ago, got her number and she told me she was interested and flirted with me for the next week over text after flirting the whole time with me during a study session.after a week of flirty texting i Asked her out and she said yes right away and then she cancelled later on. Told me something about not wanting to go out because she wasn't ready for that stuff saying we should be friends and what not. I responded back, nothing too harsh and told her whatever basically...played it cool. a week and a half later she then texts me on christmas and says merry christmas and basically said sorry for not wanting to go out and telling me how she wants to be friends. again, i acted cool and just let it go. after christmas, same thing on new years, but this time it was a response to a generic new years message that i send to all on my contact list. this time there was no apology from her. after that, i moved on with my life. no contact with her whatsoever, i dont even have a facebook or anything. Last week, i ended up going to a pre-drink/club thing with my friends. we met up at the pre-drink and i noticed her lookin at me right away. she said hi and i said hi too and proceeded doing my own thing at the party not paying too much attention to her. she found her way to me and naturally i opened up to her as well. at the club, she wouldnt let me out of sight grinding with me the whole night and holding my hand everywhere she went. we danced all night, and at the end of the night we both got a burger together. there was a whole group of us there and she sat with me alone at a different table and talked to me and stayed even after everyone left with me. we talked about her cancelling our date and i said it was no big deal. i basically said i got options and that it was not a big deal. on the way home she hopped on my back and asked me to piggy back her home. we then took an elevator up to my friends place and in the elevator i went in for the kiss. she let me touch her lips and then said no kissing allowed. so i backed off. we basically held hands all the way back to the apartment and then she called a cab and went home, and i slept at my friends place. i texted her 3 days after the whole club incident saying how i almost died cause i gave some girl a piggy back ride and she almost choked me out. she responded with a lmaooooo and said i wonder who that girl was. i responded back oh just some random girl who im going to call. she never responded...and so i called anyways and she never picked up. 2 days later she sends me this long message saying hey im sorry if i gave you the wrong impression, i just wanted everything to be normal between us and said because i was drinking i dont think i crossed any lines with you, and that she thinks im awesome and wants to be my friend....:S. I havent responded. I KNOW this girl is interested in me. theres no way you grind on a guy like that after you know theres interest between the two of us. even her closest friends tease her about me. basically...what do i do here guys? i forgot about this girl for two months and all this happened in a day. do i ignore her, neg her, ask her out, call her out....any help will be good.

Damn that took a long time to read, USE PARAGRAPHS NEXT TIME. Anyway, shes obvious toying with you, constantly leading you on then cutting you off. You were right to end contact with her after she LJBF'd you, and you should stop gaming her now. If she likes you so much why would she LJBF you twice? Because she probably isn't that interested. Move on.

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Man move on, this girl is playing with you. If she will be interesting in you, she woudn't play so much like this with you. Waste of energy...

I would be direct about it and tell her to cut the bullshit. Your time is valuable, don't let her waste it.