Posted in Don's thread, but looking for any advice.

I'm a first year at university, going after a 2nd year who is a solid 9, but is also a virgin (seriously, its fucked). I'd date this girl if I got the chance. We were kind of awkwardly introduced about a week ago, I had told my buddy that I thought she was gorgeous, and he called her over and introduced us. Talked too her a couple more times that day (and at a party that night) but nothing really came of it. The next day she added me on facebook. The day after that I saw her in the library, approached her and got her number.

We've only texted over the course of one day, and now that university reading week is going on (basically spring break, so she's gone home for 9 days) I'm not sure what to do.

Our conversation wasn't too long, and I'm worried that with the long break she might lose interest over time, but at the same time I definitely don't want to text her too much, or maybe not at all..

Here was our convo (when she put in her name she put in Kellt instead of Kelly):

Me : Wow, feels great to be done midterms

Her: Whos this?

Me: Jake, must have forgot about me

Her: Haha well i didnt get to add your number to my phone so how was i supposed to know!

Me : Hah I guess thats fair. It took me a few days to realize you were "Kellt" though

Her: Hahah shit.. you can change that to a "y" if you want

Me: Well I kinda like Kellt though, you dont mind if I call you that do you?

Her: Nooooo way

Me: I think I might.. what're you up to tonight

Her: (talks about how she went home for the break)

Me : Oh ok, is that where you're from?

Her: Yesssir

Me: Sounds like a good time, have a good break

Her: You too!!


Not really sure whether to keep just not text her at all over the break, or how to start it if I should send her something.. Any advice? Im fine with just a hook up with this girl, but I'd rather date her if that changes things.. any advice or criticism appreciated

I would enjoy your break and not think about her much, you texting her over break might make you seem needy, however if you are looking for a relationship with the girl I would text and be the nice guy.

Like the above said, don't think about it too much and enjoy your break. Mid way through, just shoot her a cool text ( you can find some interesting stuff in the routine section under "Jay's Text game") just so she doesn't completely forget about you.

When she gets back, setup something simple and fun with her as soon you two are free.

From the sounds of it, this girl seems pretty interested in you so don't fuck it up by over-thinking it homie.

Bets of luck,

Samex

Sounds like she has a good impression of you, but shes DEFINITELY not stuck on you.

So don't be stuck on her. If she's the only girl you're thinking about, realize that she thinks about you for less than a minute each day.

Doesn't mean she doesn't like you, just means you aren't a big part of her life yet, especially if shes hot and has other options.

Ya, over the last few days that's what I've been thinking, there are definitely other girls, and she definitely has other options. I won't get hung up on her if it doesn't work out, but I'll be giving it a shot. Thanks for the help

I might fire her a text today, not sure what to start it off with. I've read Jay's stuff, but don't really want to start with some sort of cheesy line, they're funny, but I don't know how well she'd receive them, especially since I don't know her that well yet. Any ideas?