After reading some of the posts here, it is amazing to me how complicated some guys make the pick up/dating process.

Most guys approach the situation so worried about what to say, what to look for, and how to 'be cool' they end up blowing the situation. Instead of trying to 'act cool' and spark interest using humor or stories about yourself, all you have to do is focus the conversation on her and force her to have to lead it.

When in doubt of what to say...just use these five simple words:

1. Why?
2. How?
3. Where?
4. Who?
5. What?

Women love talking about themselves or what they are going to do. Use this to your advantage. If you find yourself stuck in the conversation or don't know what to say, just ask her a question to explore her persona. Then, just act as though you are screening HER personality to see if she is right to continue the conversation with.

The paradox of attraction is that the men who attract women naturally act like they don't need a women while the men who act like they need women don't get women!

So, don't try so hard and instead focus your energy on getting to know and screen her. It's not that hard, but so many guys are forgetting the basics and getting wrapped up in all kinds of other nonsense that doesn't matter in the long run.

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ya.. this is good info man.

Good advice, some guys dont know what 'playing it cool means'

Usually If I focus on her, and talk about what SHE likes, I find out information from her to seduce her through her head, and make funny jokes at the same time, and when shes talking about herself and the things she loves to do, she has to imagine them. I cant say dont ask questions, and I also cant say dont not ask questions.

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It is good advice. Beware not to overdo it though, that will just make them think you are boring.

And you don't want that.

Just sayin'.

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