my life used to revolve around girls before too but i used to workout, hang with friends, chill, go clubbing but ever since i got a gf i have given up on those things and only thing i focus on is pleasing her. we have been together for an year and i have only been fighting with her

my closest friends have left me saying they cant be with me while i am with her , i stopped working out t, i have lost interest in life. like i used to play video games, watch tv i dont do any of it anymore. i dont study anymore either. how can i stop.

pussy whipped definition:
situation whereupon a male is undeniably at the mercy of his high-maintinence girlfriend & answers to her every beck and call, usually followed by the reprioritizing of girlfriend over friends, family, school, food, water, and air.

this has become a living definition of me . shes not high maintenance but she wants me to be there whenever she wants and have me drop things on a whim . and i do . how can i stop being like that . she doesnt trust me and i have to tell her where i am every second of the day

i am not rich or have lots of money but i notice that i zero my bank account whenever i am with her . like i had saved around 200$ when she had gon to visit her parents but when she came back that money was gone in 2 days on food, movies, clubs, motels.

Yes you are pussy whipped if she herself or your mind thinks you shouldn't do anything else besides making her happy. What about you man? You should be making yourself happy because its your life. Honestly, she should come second.

The only way you can stop is to have a talk with her and tell her that you need to have time with your friends and doing the things you used to enjoy. She needs to stop being so needy and demanding, and whenever she asks you to drop things you need to say "no". If she doesn't trust you enough to allow you to go and do things without her then the relationship is fucked, a good relationship needs trust. If she doesn't change you should finish with her. You don't want to lose all of your friends, hobbies and life over a girl.

I have to say this tho most people won't listen to me. When the relation gets hot, draw the line, throw a bomb to put out a fire, and run behind something past that line.

In other words, tell her the truth. Tell her that you respect her, that you love her, and you wish you could stay in this relationship. But in order for you to be happy with your life, you have to break-up with her.

From that point SHE is the one to make the decision since she's now put into the hot seat, not you.

1. She can harrass you about flaws you have. Just leave her.

2.She can just leave you. You have a single life now (Because trust me, better to find another girlfriend that won't hold you back from your happiness).

3. She can try to be better. You can try giving into some of her demand as "reward" if she isn't bitching as much. Though if she starts back up, then leave her. Every time you repeat yourself, the effects of something isn't as great.

Think about as a child did your parents spank you or yelled at you? Sure as a kid you were terrified and decided to listen, but as a teenager you wised up knowing that they're not going to do much about it so you do it anyways.


4. She will realize what she did was wrong, you respect her and give her your freedom, and shown how trustworthy you are (or that I know of, don't know you so if she has a good reason...), and give you some space.

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I pray that you trust me on this, I was on a very similar boat and suffered for it because of what happened, and in the end she left me, leaving me in a depression. I hope you don't just decide to suffer through no girl is worth your freedom.