Firstly i'd have put this in the relationships forum, however it won't allow me to post there.

About 9 months ago i split with this girl, we had been together for a mere 5 months so I thought nothing of it. She was going to do some work abroad and I was not prepared to travel after such a short time. While we were together she was a bit jealous/possessive, but she claimed it was due to exes and such.

Since then she has told me she has had 4 or 5 boyfriends and has made it clear to me that I am a dick, arsehole... etc. she keeps calling me and texting me though and wanting to hang out. At the weekend i gave her and her mate a lift home, in the car she gives me a hug and kiss and i'm thinking... you have a boyfriend and i want your friend... Next thing i know she blows up crying and apologising we split up then back to me being a dick.

A few days pass and i'm trynig to find a way to get on good terms so i can get to her mate to bang her. she comes out with she's glad we split up and once again i'm a dick for posting on FB about spending valentines day with my true love (xbox) although my mates knew what i meant.

My questions are anyone have any idea whats goig on in this girls head ? How can i go about getting to her friend without causing too much toruble and finally is it morally wrong to try and bang both of them, because my ex goes away again soon and her mate will still be here ?

thanks in advance

You'd have better luck storming the beaches of Normandy during D-Day than figuring that out. Forget your ex and focus on the friend. Just how close are the two? I think your chances depend greatly on that factor.

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Pretty little girls, so used to getting your way. Along comes a man who challenges you, and suddenly you don't know what to say.

there not particularly close, but it is good to know i'm not the only one who thinks that way!