Hey guys,

I have a situation that seemed to be going perfectly that I need some help with. A good friend hitched a girl and I together about 2 weeks back. The situation was perfect, she audibly stated and showed body language that she was into me. Got her number in person, texted her soon after my friend and I took off and pulled the perfect back and forth over text. playfull, suggestive, firm, witty, ect.

Found out we both go to the same coffee shop, saw the opportunity to kick it. We did, we even hung out till 5 in the morning, i kissed her within the first six hours of hanging out. Talked for almost 7 hours total. Did the same thing for the next two days. she asked me to chill, then I her ect.

Got further, nothing below the clothes. Told me multiple times that she likes me, that i'm cute, that i'm funny, that i'm mature for my age. (im 19, shes 20). Also stated that she usually only dates assholes. (i don't go for the asshole approach, nor am I actually an asshole lol)

I unfortunately made the mistake of telling too much about myself. Not anything deep and dark, but a lot of my mystery went away in those 3 days. So I guess not perfect situation.

LONG STORY SHORT, she literally cut off communication after the third day. I got no uncomfortable body vibes, no second guessing, nothing to show she didn't want me to stop perusing. I actually want to date this girl and I see a lot of awesome potential between us. It has been almost 2 weeks since she has returned any invites or texts. (3 total, one invite the day after the third hangout, one in person the day after and one about a week later after no contact).

ONE LAST DETAIL/UPDATE. We both work in the mall. I work at starbucks. She came in the store to get a couple drinks. She shows obvious signs of bashfulness, nervousness and shyness. All signs that she still is into me or at least still thinks i'm cute. I am nice, didn't treat her special, didn't do any revenge bs, i was confident and I made her laugh. Didn't say bye though. Been 2 days since then and I again haven't contacted her.

All that to say, how do i play this? I know not to take anything personally, recognize it's a game, and play it cool, but I want to make sure I don't mess it up. We traded books, so when I give up is when I ask for my book back, but I know that if i ask for it back prematurely than i'm F**ked.

SO THERE'S THE PUZZLE. Sorry for the length. Figured I'd give all the detail for the best answer. So surprise me, I feel like I thought of everything.

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First post. See a lot of potential for help here. Thanks in advance.

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Tell her you need to give her something. When she asks what say ..

a mind blowing, deep, intense, orgasm. And maybe 2 if you're lucky.

Do something completely left field to throw her off. As you say you lost the mystery so gain it back.
I would walk into her work and force a personal possession onto her telling her she needs to hold onto it and you have no time but you will explain later. (a ring or necklace or something) anyway when you take it back a few hours or days later just say thanks an walk away. Now she is thinking about you... You have tripled your mystery.

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

Found out why the silence through a friend. Not manly enough. Wasn't an asshole. She apparently likes assholes. Don't need to prove myself or change who i am. I can be if i want, but it's not fun for me. Too easy. No challenge. CASE CLOSED BABY. Thanks for the good ideas. I will actually use those.

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