Yes, well, I'm 18 years old, doing last year of secondary school,
VWO, the highest secondary school possible in the Netherlands.

And I like someone who's 16 years old,
but she's playing a weird game, she constantly says hi if I meet
her in school, but when I text her, she just doesn't react.

And I constantly feel like I'm the one that is doing too much,
so I think that she starts to think I'm an annoying guy,
and I don't know how to keep it going,
I'm not shy, until it is about girls,
and I don't know how to continue my 'seduction'.

I did ask her out once, but she just reacted like
"yes we'll do that one time" like she didn't even
liked that she was asked out.. I don't know,
and you boys all have such good advice, so I hope you do.

And sorry for my english mistakes if I made some..

Hi,

It appears to me you took a, "I didn't bother to read anything" approach. You need to learn about IOD's, IOI's and Kino. You cannot just text a girl like that...

you see her everyday, so you are not restricted to SMS. Meaning unless you both messaging each other and teasing in the evening, SMS is not your friend at this time.

When you meet her in the halls, speak to her, start using KINO and escalate accordingly. Do not ask why she didn't SMS, its obvious, just keep it cool, tease her a little. Do this for 2 or 3 more days everyday, then ask her out.

But it sounds to me, that your taking the pussy approach here and just asking her out on SMS... what does say "hi" mean? Please do not tell me you pass her in the halls and literally say hi???!!

Apologise for being direct, but someone had to hit you hard on this one.

Opener> Neg > IOI's >IOD's and go with the flow. Read up man, please avoid asking questions if you haven't done the research first. Look at a book called Double your dating of David De angelo or Revelation.. they are both great starting points.

Regards,

Xcal

Seen this before, and it's extremely hard to adjust ''the game'' to a younger girl as her, from my experience, younger girls usually play safe and wait for longer terms before getting attracted, they have no life experience or nothing, so it's hard to get to them with game.

I'd suggest that You just stay be-friended with her and expand your social contacts, text her once in a while with good information and eventually when You do hook up, take it a step forward depending on how Your relation is with her.

I had a girl I fell inlove with from the first moment I saw her, we became friends and it took 8 months before we eventually got into a relationship, she was 16 and I was 15. there was absolutely no game involved and it was purely based on friendship and sharing the same aspects.