Background:
-Type of her personality: Likes hooking up but after knowing the other person (she doesn't wanna feel like a slut kinda crap...)
-She's my friends' roommate, i met her at a club
-Her friends always mention her when i talk to them
-We added each other on fb and we poked each other
-We added each other on bbm
- talk for 2 days ( for a long time) maybe comfort building?
-Third day we did't talk

Problem: Text game is not my thing

Question: What to do next? should i initiate another conversation or should i wait until she initiates one? Should i ask her out? Also is there anyway of telling if a girl wants a relationship?

Thanks in advance,
Jay D

all girls want to be in a relationship, but it depends where they are in life and who they want to be with. if you want her to be with you then you have to become the man of her dreams.

texting and bbm are basically the same except that bbm is more instantaneous and more intimate than text, and in texts you have to say alot in one rather than with bbm you can do it in multiples.

comfort building is good but it does not mean that the girl is going to fall for you. attraction and deep rapport are the ingredients that get girls hooked on you.

i think you should start the conversation again and add the missing ingredients to your interaction with her. then when all goes well in a space of some messages then ask her out.

hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude

Thanks for your reply mickeyjackson21

I texted her and everything went perfectly fine, i asked her out and im probably gonna see her tonight at a rave (electro festival). However i just wanted to clarify some stuff, i think DHV is not a problem at all in my situation, but she is not the kind of girl that doesn't like to hook up easily aka she always need to build comfort.

How do you guys think i should play it tonight? any tips?

Jay D

building comfort is good, but things can tend to be too comfortable and nothing will happen at all.

i think it would be good to take her to somewhere more calm and quiet at first, like a coffee or a chilled out bar where you can build some more comfort and attraction. try and show her that there are many sides to you. you can be serious and talk about deep stuff, but also that you are dominant and teasing and like to be playful. and then take her to the rave which is a high energy, sexual environment where you can dance with her, build some kino escalation up to the point when you kiss her.

I totally agree with you, lots of people misunderstand building comfort...However good news i guess, i went to the rave with her, we raged and i kiss closed at the end. She told me she wants to see me at Above and Beyond's rave tomorrow! any tips? should i start seducing or should keep building comfort over texting?

Thanks again,
Jay D

Ah shit man, you're going to Above & Beyond with a chick. So fucking jealous. Have fun

Oh and as for your question, to me it seems like you got this shit locked. Now isn't the time to overthink things, just go with the flow. She's clearly down to fuck.

alternate between comfort building and seducing. but mostly seducing at the right times, the idea is to lead her to your apartment so that you can get some action with her.