Hy guys, I met a girl, she is first year at the same college as me, and lives in the same student hostel! Some of our common friends introduced us, and one day she told me to take a walk! I told her that I'm going to grab something to eat, and if she wants, she can join! She did!
I knew that she had a boyfriend , and tryed to disqulify myself, and neg her, and showed her that I have standards! She was like "oohh really? and what should I do to be in your friends circle!" ! I think I did i to much and she thought about me that I am a bitch and a prig! But she didn't mentioned that she had a bf in out conversation!

I eventualy found out that she told to her best friend (girl) that I told her that she seemd a bitch in the first place but she isnt, (this pissed her off, this was one of the neg) !

When we were meeting at the college we were saying hy, maybe a little talk but this is all!
When I was meeting her, I was trying to prove that I have alot of stuffs to do , go out with friends gym, dance tryning(breakdance) , I am a busy and not boring person, wich is true , hoping that I will build interest!

A few days earlier, I met her in a club, she was with 2 of her friends, and I knew them, and I got to them like I was surprised by them being there and was very happy to see them, and kissed the 2 of her friends (girls) and her, I didn't even looked at her, and after 30 seconds and a small chat with the girls, I said "oo, hey there X how are you, feeling ok?" (ignored the target) !

Next day she saw me on facebook and :
Her : Hey :*
Me: hello
Her: hey, I kissed you, aren't you going to kiss me?
Me: no, I will kiss you when I will see you, not on facebook, but of course when you aren't with your boyfriend )
Her: Ohh but you can kiss me than as palls! ( wtf.. here she jst told me that I can french kiss her without her bofriend knowing about it? )
Me: maybe.. hey I have to go to a party now, bye bye :*

After 2 days, she told me on facebook that she want to visit and see my room , and tell her the number, I told her ok.. call me ..

My questions are is she IOI me? she has a relationship for 1 year...
What should I do when she comes and visit me?
Should I qualify myself and IOI her?
What to do?

Okay first of all, i have no clue what palls is.
But come on it couldn't be much more obvios that she gives you IOI's, and pretty heavy ones as well!!
So come on! simply game her like you would with any other girl, although it sounds to me, that the boyfriend is a problem for you, not that you can't go all the way with her, cause it really sounds like you can! but because it seems to me that you don't feel good about fucking a girl with a bf!
However if you don't have any problem with the bf, then sexual escalate things with her and the magic will happen!

Good luck

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"Palls" is a misspelling of "pals" which is a synonym for "friends." She's saying that if you kiss her in person, it will have to be a friendly kiss on the cheek. She's totally flirting with you!

Tks guys, I will try to escalate and see what's happening!

fresh news ... I met her in a club accidentaly, and she camed after 5 minutes at me and said that she will stay with me a bit, and I started dancing with her, and she asked me :
Her: Hey why are your friends looking so wierd at me? is any of them your girlfriend?
Me : No , none of them is my gf
Me: with who did you camed here ?
Her : with some friends!
Me : And your boyfriend where is he?
Her: Home, I didn't taked him, he didn't deserved!
And I rememberd that she told me that I can kiss her if she isnt with her boyfriend, and I fucked up and didn't kissed her on the lips, but on the cheek, and kept dancing, and tryed to touch our cheeks and slowly to the lips, but she was pulling back a bit, ( I know I should have got the balls and go direct )! And she asked me :

Am I a bitch anymore? ( as I neged her when we met,I wrote in the first post)

What does this meens? she was willing to pass my tests or? She was very curious about this!

I said no, and kept dancing! ( but while we were dancing I saw her watching right to left, like not really feeling the song and dancing, but finding approval from the people in the venue, she wanted to be in the center of attention I think, I don't really know, anyway she sucked at dancing)

Than she told me that She visited me, and now I should visit her at her friends ( this was a compliance test wasnt it? ) I accepted, and got to her friends, and while we were walking , I grabed her hand to make a kino test, and squeeze her hand to see if she squeezes back, and told me hey don't grab my hand, I don't like it! ( As I wrote this post, I think I realized that she was looking in the venue, and didn't grabed my hand, because she was affraid of her beeing seen with me , of somebody that knew her boyfriend(1 year relationship)

what do you think about this?

Than got to her friends, and started dancing, and she seemd that she lost her interest, i mean , she was dancing with her friends and than a bit with me, and she didn't touched me when dancing, and I was feeling kinda wierd, kinda stuck there and didn't knew what to do! And I said that I must try at least to kiss her, and I did while dancing, and she looked in the side and didn't let me kiss her!( I also felt that I should have go direct and kiss her, but I was affraid of the rejection and not destroying the hole shit between us) ! I got pissed off, and I passed over my huge AA and asked a girl from around that I noticed her EC with me, and spoked for a bit and n-closed in the face of the hb I am talking! ( I was trying to punish her , for pulling back at my kiss atempt! ) Than she started dancing with me , and asked me :

Her : Hey aren't you're friends going to be mad at you because you left them?
Me : Acttualy I was going right now to them ..
Her: Because I asked you to go to them?
I was AFC here!!!!! fuck
Me : No , I was really going to leave right now!
Her : Hey Tell me again you're room number, I want to visit you're room
Me : xxx
Her : ohh ok , I will come and visit you, when do you finish school tomorow?
Me : about 5 o'clock
Her: ok , I will come over at 6

Ok now.. I think I should k-close when she comes, or end up in friend zone isn;t it? if she comes, she won't be seen by nobody if she kiss me , and maybe that is what hold her back, what should I do? K-close? but how??? ask her : Hey look into my eyes, and pause.. do you want to kiss me? !

Or you think she is just playing with me???

Anyway I don't give a fuck about her, she is a 9 but I just wanna train , and win this one and eventualy maybe f-close! And than maybe going to meet the hb that I n-closed !

What i think is special about girls in relationship is, that it is 10x more important to isolate! but other than that she seems into you! so go for it

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Ok she just left from my room!

I talked with her, it was fun and interesting, and she told me that she likes how I talk , she likes this at me and dosen't know why! I overcomed my anxiety and asked her if she would like to kiss me, and I tryed to keep my body language perfectly wich I did, she was very impresed that I had no strange reaction when I asked! But she said tha if she wouldn't have a bf she have would , but she dosen't want to cheat on him! and asked me why would want to do that, and I old her that I like her! And I said that I apprecite this alot at her for not cheating on her bf! I got a great exp on my body language, and reamain friends, I am veeery satisfied!

I'm a little confused about this...

What was your original goal with her? To become friends?????? I think you should of just kissed her directly instead of asking her. By her saying yes, you make her expressly consent to cheating, which most girls will not do. However, if you would have kissed her, she would have kissed you back and then she wouldn't feel as guilty but at the same time, might have realized that she had feelings for you, broken up with her bf, and gotten with you.

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agree, i mean it is good that you are satisfied, but i still think you handeld this wrong.
You should have escalated further to a point where it would seem weird if you didn't kiss her, cus when you don't escalate enough, and ask her directly whether or not she wants to kiss you, thats when you lay a lot of pressure on her you see:
1. she has to take intiativ.
2. she has to admit she is cheating on her husband (this is very groundbreaking for most girls)
Hope you can see my point

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Yeah guys, you're right with this.. If I kissed her, she wouldn't felt guilty, and true, I kinda fucked up with this one, but I practiced alot on my body language, a bit o anxiety, my goal was to practice, of couse i didn't tooked it to the end, maybe next time !

Hey... news..she just camed to me to ask me 3 things she said a vaccum cleaner, some books for the school, and to take her to some place that she can't find, from where she will go to her bf! But after she asked me those and I responsed, she wasn't leaving , just staying next to me in my bed, like she didn't really cared about the stuffs she asked from me, she just wanted to see me! We talked, I asked her about her realitonship, and tryed the straw man technique :

Me : hmm I think he is a great guy, to be able to fulfill you, and make you feel the most beautiful girl in the world.. !
Her: naah he's not that great..

was my first time when I tryed the straw man tehnique, and didn't knew how to continue, how should I have done it?

When I was talking with her she even told me " oh my god you're eyes are really beauifull" " i said thank you" , like she didn't even listening what I was saying!

So i'm still in the game, ain't I ?

Alot of kino happened in those 20 minutes! I think now I should go direct and kiss her ! what do you think about this situation?

Sounds good!
personally, i never go directly for the kiss, i always try to get to that intimate moment, where our heads a almost touching and we are standing really close, because I know at this point that she WILL not reject me, and you have to build up to that point, depending on the IOI's she has send me, i can go more directly.
So basic is that if i know for sure that she is into me, then i can go directly, but if i have the leastest bit of doubt, i will never go directly.
So because she have a bf there is a chance that she will reject you, therefor i say, build up to that point where she will not reject you!

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