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i was taught game by khuram so i would just say what he taught me
the way he does is first he would throw the agenda out there, "you seem kinda nice girl and i mean that even though i am trying to kiss you. Get off me" after a few minute he would do hard kino and fast push and pull and right before the kiss he would push the girl emotionally and physically away and the next moment he would pull her in and kiss her and that feels so wild and passionate.
And if you want easy way then just calibrate, lean in, she flinches? Go back, lean in again, she flinches? Go back, and when you sense that she isnt getting uncomfortable by your leaning in, go for the kiss.
The fastest way to get her comfortable and yourself too (;-)) is to talk about kiss. How do you like to kiss? How she likes? How most people are such a bad kissers?
It works amazingly
dude i am not saying that khuram's techniques are faulty, from your example, pretty solid. BUT on this forum he did get alot of flak because of his behavior and over aggressive nature on the threads. I do not want to call you out for being whoever or whatever, so I am just going to point out that all of khurams ideas can be found already in other methods. He may be able to convey the message to you and others in a good way but new puas need to learn up on multiple techniques from different gurus and pick and choose their favorite personal methods.
talking about kissing and/or sexual is sexual state/framing/tension, getting your target into a sexual, aroused state of being. - this technique is one of the oldest and best in the books
the push pull technique is a classic yet every pua member has slightly different styles or goals with this method. it seems that khuram has fast kino (push) then distances himself (pull) which makes her want more. Same with the emotional part, its solid technique yet not unique.
the only thing i do not like with your example is that if you lean and she flinches, is that you should not be in that situation to begin with. if you follow proper methods, the kiss should be one the easiest parts. Yet new pua often have trouble with the kclose, most experienced pua say that if the first attempt doesnt work, then game her until you are positive you will succeed. if not, move on to other HBs in the vicinity.
no doubt, we all can learn and practice more. I recommend reading other methods and not just the person/method that you got into first. It will be beneficial in the long run and will create a knowledgeable pua who can ultimately use different techniques to be successful.