Hey guys
So ive been havin this reacurring theme with the lucky ladies that come into my life. Sometimes because my friends are pains in the ass and dont like goin out to clubs a lot, for practice, i might just add a bunch of random hbs on facebook and see how it goes. Most of the time i do pretty good, especially lately as ive brought back the cube into my repertoire cause it seriously helps build comfort and gets u into the comfort phase easy. BUT, ive been hitting a snag. For example I number closed a chick after talkin to her on facey for about 2 hours and since then ive talked to her abit but i always have to start the conversation !
When i do talk to her shes always keen for us to hang out and is real flirty like tellin me that a friend of hers is getting a hotel room in the city and that i should come party with her followed by the standard "hehehe". Yes thats a great idea lol but why do u cease to exist until i say hi ? This isnt the first chick ive had this problem with, its like first time i talk to them it goes great but then unless i initiate future conversations i wont hear from them again. Anyone able to help with tips on how to really hook a chick in ? Much appreciated guys

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The more you sweat in times of peace, the less you bleed in times of war..... you'll also probably get more pussy

Girls don't usually do the approaching. They don't have to because they get constantly approached by guys. After you have worked some serious game on her by showing what an amazing alpha with blablabla talents you have, and fucked her like an animal, then she'll be happy to re-approach you for more.

yea but untill then i dont wanna look needy by constantly inniating the convo

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The more you sweat in times of peace, the less you bleed in times of war..... you'll also probably get more pussy

It's common. That stuff happens.It's also kind of a pattern. If you call her like 3-4 times and are energic with each call and always have something to say it will embed in her mind that that's how the conversaton with you goes. In other words,she gets used to it and doesnt even realize shes doing it,thus not feeling the need to initiat convesation.


A possible solution to this might be bashin her for it in a playful way. Something like :"Wow you're not very creative are you ? Why am I doing all the talking here ?" Not necesarily like that cuz it might be a litle harsh but it all depends on your comfort level. Only you can know where you are right now.

thanks man that helps abit, nice to know that im not the only one with this problem

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The more you sweat in times of peace, the less you bleed in times of war..... you'll also probably get more pussy