"Hey! I meant to get a hold of you sooner, but school and work decided to take control of my life these last few weeks. I really enjoyed our conversation last time we talked, and I was wondering would you want to meet up to grab something to eat or some coffee?"
thats what i sent her... advice?

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Pre-Med Student: Pediatric Neurology (Year 2)
Water Polo Player (searching for college)
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Giovanni

You're being too timorous. "I was wondering would you want to meet up to grab something to eat or some coffee?" is not the discourse of an alpha male. Tell her what you're planning to do (I'd suggest something more interesting than grabbing coffee) and direct her to come along-- no question mark necessary.

Also, telling her "school and work decided to take control of my life" is subtly communicating a DLV. Referencing your hobbies/passions/manly prerogatives can be used for good, but never from a frame of them "controlling" your life. You are in control of your life-- convey that at all times. But honestly, you could probably leave it out entirely from an fb message and save it for face-to-face time. Be as laconic as possible when chatting online. You have better things to do-- she's got to know that.

By the way, what exactly is a "facebook close"? Did you meet her on fb or did you meet her elsewhere and then add her?

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Try not to use facebook that often. It can seem like it's effective, but actually.... It's not.

But if you insist on facebook gaming, always use C&F and sexual framing.

Also use Giovanni's advice. You have to be the alpha male at all times. I know it's easier said then done, but you can look up guides on how to be the alpha male. Always be in control of any situation

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She was hungry for da coq

Right, damn lol. So is this a lost cause to pursue if she hasn't answered back?

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Pre-Med Student: Pediatric Neurology (Year 2)
Water Polo Player (searching for college)
RAFC
Giovanni

bump

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Pre-Med Student: Pediatric Neurology (Year 2)
Water Polo Player (searching for college)
RAFC
Giovanni

facebook means nothing, if you don't at least make out with her on the first meeting why bother following it up. too much effort.

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La Dolce Vita.

Do you have any ideea how much I close all facebook tabs and ignore all conversations there ? It's a mess.I mean , there's at least a 60% chance that she didnt even SEE your messege.

I was with a HB 7 the other night who was giving me IOIs and making plans with me to go out clubbing. She asked me for my name to add me on facebook and then we exchanged names (not numbers) before I had to catch the last train home. She initiated so I feel like i should message her but here it seems like its not worth it.