Heya guys,

Ill try to keep this short.
Last summer I went to England, I myself live in holland, I went there to a festival and I met this really nice good looking portugese girl. Weve made out at the festival and exchanged numbers and facebook stuff. after the festival me and my friends travelled to scotland for some roadtripping and she said she would come to scotland on saturday eventually she didn't come cause she had to work overtime.

Me back in holland she promised me she would come to amsterdam within a month, which she promised 2 months ago and she still hasn't been to amsterdam.
Now we do text eachother but after those two "false promises" I didn't think she was into me so didn't text her anymore only when she did.

She really does send sensual messages that make me wish I was with her. But should I continue with this, I mean whats the point? I probably won't meet her again soon. the only thing certain is in june cause that's when she goes to holland to see manowar (heavy metal band). and she would travel to the moon for manowar.

I don't see a relation ship with her as she lives across the sea. And it won't hold me down hitting on other women. but should I keep her in contact in case we ever get to meet eachother or just ditch her?

Well it depends on what you want.

If you have great fun in texting with her, then text with her.

If you think the timespending/sex ratio is too big, then I think you should drop it.

You could text with her now and then, not all the time, just to make sure it's still on a bit, if you know what I mean


But I wouldn't count on her coming to Amsterdam, stuff like that rarely happens.
You could reinitiate contact a bit before Manowar and then plow the shit out of her when she's in Holland. Or just drop it and plow lots of other women with the time you spend on texting her now.

It's all up to you, follow your feelings!

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She was hungry for da coq

I like what Brysti is saying but I disagree with "follow your feelings" Unless you are a "natural" your better off following the advice of people who are really good at this whole PUA thing, not your own feelings.

You already lost control of the frame as she backed out on you twice. I would just send her short flirty, funny, texts as you remember on rare occation but consider her a lost cause and move on. Your not going to increase her attraction by trying to pin her down or obligate her to a third opportunity to hang out with you. Don't operate from a scarcity point of view even if that's currently the case.

Finally I don't like texting, calling or pursuing chicks that arnt showing a lot of interest. while it seems to make sense to hang on to slim chances from an academic point of view, you tend to put emotional capital in these long-shot girls which prevents you from going after new opportunities which is really what you need to be focused on. This probably isn't what you wanted to hear but I think that's the best mindset.