hey guys,

so I met this girl at the party and we go to the same school too. Anyway I got her number and we've been texting each other. She seems to like me because she's giving me all these IOIs but she is just too afraid to be with me alone. I asked her out for dinner and she didn't want to come. Today I met her at the university cafeteria and told her that I'm sitting over there and that she should join me, but she still couldn't't leave her friends and join me for dinner. The thing is that I know all her friends and I'm pretty cool with them all, they like me and I like them. But this girl is just too damn afraid to go out with me, she is kinda shy and I don't know what my next step should be. What do you think I should do guys? I really don't like building comfort with the girl over texting (Im terrible at that game) and I just think that it would be way better to interact with the girl in real life not through the phone. I asked her out for dinner and she told me that she had already eaten, I asked her to sit with me in the school cafeteria she told me that she is sitting with her friends. Do you guys think I should forget about her, even though I really like her? Or should I start building comfort by texting her more often? I mean I don't want to build comfort with her when she is with her friends because I want to separate her from them?? Please guys suggest me, what should my next step be?

I can relate to this. I have a girl that simply doesnt want (or really cant, cause she is making excuses) to go on a date with me. I know she likes me, but you know, she is a girls: she will say one thing, and do the other. You never know. You should, off course, game other girls more and more, have other girls in you life, but if you want this girl, dont be needy! If she doesnt respond, who cares, you can pick up other girls, right? So, just relax and enjoy