i dont know how to persist and i think this is the single most important factor in pick up. Obviously not being needey but just persisting. like the girls you know you could get but cant be bothered to get them attracted-if you were to get them attracted persistance could be the one thing that could cause attraction. ive heard so many girls say ~" i wasnt into him but he was very persistant" when talking about their boyfreinds etc
What do you say to be persistant?

because ive never persisted i dont know how to expand my comfort zone to a guy that persists because i see persistance as lowering value. But i know that is the ego.

Anyone?

Id absolutely disagree that persistence is the single most important factor in pickup. Generating attraction and knowing how to act on it is. If you mean persisting in improving your overall game, then I would agree with you.

You have to be somewhat skeptical about anything a woman says regarding what she found attractive in a man. While persistence could be good shes going to likely excuse the responsibility for her attraction on external circumstances no matter what the truth of the issue really is.

So to pursue you probably need to do what you are already doing calling, texting, FB haunting etc. Just don't go over the top and be a stalker. The truth is you should work on creating more attraction so you are not constantly in a position where you think you need to try harder pursuing. Also by pursuing her too hard you are often preventing her from having the chance to pursue you, and thus losing attraction in the process.

finally you have to consider how much emotional capital your dedicating to pursing lukewarm chicks? I know im not a strong enough man to handle juggling 10 weak prospects at a time, its hard on my ego. If you have no emotional attachment then you can pursue half-hearted chicks all day, but again if you cant raise their interest after a certain amount of time how much effort do you want to give rather then just working on fresh prospects?

your believing that the girl is into you and keep gaming ignoring the shit tests and rejections (without being needy) is what i call persistence

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