I need help with this one. I can get girls numbers no problem but whenever it comes to the text thing i cant figure out how to game without asking questions. And whenever i ask the questions they never answer the question... Example. So are we ever going toactually hang out or just do the text message thing till the end of time? Hb: no response. So i say something off subject and i get instant reply. Then i ask so are you just like every other girl on the face of the earth and avoid answering questions and just going to deny it hb: sry imbusy give me a minute. And i say yeah now ur procrastinating
Hoping ill change the subject and forget that i asked that question, next you will just play stupid. hb: what are ywhat the fuck are you talking about? Me: see i knew you were just like every other girl hb: leave me alone. Me: ok now ur just being a total bitch.... And this is where i end up every time!!! First its ignore then its put it off till later then they play stupid then turn into a bitch.. so am i fucking this up by asking questions in the first place?? How is it possible to text game without asking questions;?

you are asking her to lead/seeking her approval

LETS GO OUT ON WED, IM GOING TO X, I WOULD LOVE/WANT YOU TO COME TOO!!


EITHER THAT OR CALL THEM, if they don't answer on the phone and hang up they are fucking weird, simple as that

and phone is way better, puts more pressure on them not to flake, they need to come up with excuse right on the spot, without the UHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.......... UMMMMMMMMMMMM......... I THINK IM WASHING MY DOG, NO SORRY,

you know at that point it is a bullshit flake and the girl is a waste of time

GOOD LUCK

The best flakes say they have to help their grandparents do something or something about their kids. And then theres no way to know if it is bullshit or not. but i get the point. Anyways if they turn into bitches then they really arent worth fucking with anyways. Thats why im not too worried about wether ot not i piss them off or not. Hehe. But this happens also when im asking them where they are at where they work if they like to go out at night.. its pretty much any questiin i ask. Theres something about answering a fucking question thats just super difficult. And its like critically needed information!! But if i ask them the question "are you a bitch" .... Well you know what happens then i get an instant HELL NO!!! So y is any other question so hard to answer... And guess what when they ask me a question i dont even think about giving a bullshit answer i just tell em. They get all the answers they want without a hassle. Its like taketaketake no give!!!

Maybe i should work on that..? I should learn to give bullshit answers and it might improve my game???!

She will be able to spot the bullshit. The only good that comes from this is that she will know you can spot the bullshit too. Try push-pulling, and maybe some disqualifications. Thats a much better way to show that you aren't easy to impress than bullshitting to them. Bullshitting them shows that you were affected by their BS, its better to seem as if you don't care. Your making a big deal out this and turning into something bigger than it needs to be. They won't like the drama and will not want to talk to you.

hey i have got the perfect solution
get them all lined up, and get an ak47 too, shot them all, make a tomb and write , "BITCHES"
NO GIRLS , NO WORRIES

Actually, you are doing something wrong. And its hard to give you accurate advise without observing your game. I think these mistakes are with your initiall approach. Build good attraction and comfort in the initiall approach. And turn your questions into statement or in other words make guesses. For example instead of asking
"where are you from"
make a guess
"you must be from (place name) because usually girls from there are blah blah"
then wait. If they dont reply wait a few hours, let the pressure build up. Your problem is you are not able to handle tension

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I am going to try to work on this. Hmmm funny story. Today i walked out of the gas station carrying a bag of ice and a lady stopped me and told me i had beautiful eyes. I just smiled at her and before i could say thank you.she said oh and you know it too! I smiled even bigger and she said omg your a player and then she ran..not walk.. RAN back to her car and hauled ass down the road... She didnt even make it inside the store...??? Did i do somsthing wrong????

Wow. I can't believe she ever spoke to you again after the question you asked her. Man, that question is so totally wrong you should never speak it again. Your question shows:
1) You are desperate to hang out with her.
2) You have lost your patience.
3) There is no easy way to answer your question even if she did want to, it puts all the work of setting up a date in her court...

Yeah, you used sarcasm, but not in the right way. She doesn't respond because your message is going to make you the last person on Earth she wants to hang out with.

Any time you ask a question you should first think about how you would feel if someone asked you that question. If you can't feel the correct answer to your own question, why do you expect she will?

You wanna progress from texting to meet up...so instead of communicating how much texting sucks, communicate how much fun meeting up will be. Example: by inviting her to something fun.
Same exact problems with your question...
What the fuck ARE you talking about man? You're not building any enticement or attraction, you're just pushing her what a desperate, needy, jerk you can be.
Translation: every girl before that I have talked to has ditched me, now I see you are too. You suck!

Have you heard of social proof? This is the opposite of social proof. You're giving her social proof that other girls think you suck.

Anyway good luck man, I hope you see what your problems are. I'm not saying this to be a dick I'm just pointing out what your errors were.

Now that u put it like that i see what is wrong. Thank you. this particular girl is my ex i was with for 4 years and we r still cool. I dont talk to all girls like this. I was giving this example because it would be easy to analyze. But anyways i have trouble getting them to answer any qurstion unless its. "Are you a bitch" or something self incriminating then i get an instany answer.

You do realize that now that you told us its yo ex it gives a whole new perspective right ?

Oh and, did you really ask a girl whom you've been with for 4 years if she's just like any other girl on the face of the earth ?


Anywayz,be pacient. If you cant help your self and are gonna ask a question anywayz at least wait for a response before you text again saying stuff like : BTW, if you got problems managing your patience or whatnot just initiate texting game while doing something else like watching a movie , that way your full atention won't be on "omg its been 2 mins and she didnt text back" , it will be on the movie.

The whole no reply-instant reply thing makes me mad!

Like I said , do something else while text gaming.

Dawg, you act needy as FUCK!

You should try that.
Text her "are you a bitch?"
HB:replie angrily
You reply: I was jking about my previous text, I wanted to see what kind of commands you respond to "
The Emoticon is VITAL!

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I think a lot of these problems come down to the fact that getting a number is not a guarantee of a date. Most girls will give you their number even if they're not really much interested in you, because it's much easier to reject you by ignoring you on the phone than it is when you're standing in front of them.

If they won't answer questions they are most likely not interested and hoping you will go away.

Your text messages were also horrible as are some of the suggestions in here.