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Hey guys. So, I responded with,
"Really didn't think you'd get offended. I can respect a woman who stands up for herself, but I don't think I was being rude. If you can't take a simple joke, you're probably not my type."
She didn't respond - didn't expect her to.
I'll probably see her at gym again and then see where it goes. She's cute, but I think backing down would have been the worst option. Thanks for all the replies and the discussion.
You obviously offended her, for points people have made in previous posts. Oh well, you win some you lose some, you keep learning.
I think you could have responded w/ something like... "hmm, you must have been thinking about sex or something... Although I'm flattered, I was only making a joke about you and the elliptical, and how getting you 'out on the town' would obviously burn more calories than an elliptical. I think you definitely need that drink w/ me so we can get your mind out of the gutter. Smiley face."
Trying to make a joke out of it, and accuse her for being overly forward somewhere when you didn't mean it like that. Aka, lie your ass off, but I think it would have worked.
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