I generally say, "Really? Want a new one?" with a big 'ol smile. At that point, you really can tell if she's lying or not by her body language. Other things it tells you if she's really sick of her bf or not. Goes something like this:

Her: "I have a boyfriend"
Me: "Really, for how long?" or "Really? want a new one? how long have you been together?"
Her: <some sort of answer> If she says less than a year, move on, they're still in the lovey, emotional stage, nothing will break that. Anything over a year, have to watch her body language and congruence. If her answer is with a hint of sadness, lips turned down, flash look down of shame, etc. She's open to go for.
Me: "Does he treat you right?"

Her: "Wellll yeah" One of those, sort of 'kinda, sorta' responses - go for it, she's either lying or miserable in the relationship and maybe looking for a way out or just wants to get laid cause her bf sucks.

Her: "Yeah, he does" Her smile is bright, cheery.... she's into the dude, move on, there's ALOT more fish in that sea but I always respond with:
Me: "That's great, cause the SECOND he doesn't, I am so there....here's my number" This has worked for me 50% of the time, you stick in their mind and they'll be back cause you handled the rejection with finesse. Then when she does come back, maybe you don't want HER now......makes them want you more.

This came up a few weeks ago, this response got her laughing and giving me more IOIs... I'm still new at game so I didn't even number close her, but it was fun in the moment. She actually DOES have a boyfriend..

Me: "Really just one? Cuz I have 12 girlfriends... They each have their own unique ...powers. I have a cook, a driver, a kungfu master... What's your special skill?"

Her: Whatever bullshit

Me: "Meh I already have one of those. But you know what? I need an explosives expert. So you and my social engineering girl can go out and rob banks."

You have a good point, but it's okay to still be her friend right?

I mean, walking away is rude. Sarging isn't about forcing her to bed or being desperate... it's about being a fun person! If you're fun about it, they might realize "Hey, this guy is cool" and get comfortable enough to be good friends with you!

Then, you can use her as social proof, or if she's willing, make out with her later. She might even be looking for another boyfriend. These are all just benefits!

But if you walk away, you just lost a friend. She might have said that to tease you, and if you leave she might feel bad. Remember you're there to make friends, have fun, and give off a good vibe! You seem like you're trying to give off bad vibes, whether it's your intention or not... Girls will be able to tell instantly what kind of vibe you are giving off. Just a little constructive criticism, if you are okay with it!

I don't care if you're Casanova himself. Go ahead and try to hit on a girl in front of her boyfriend at a bar/club. If she's anything close to good looking, then I guarantee you that her BF (and his buddies) will have enough self respect to raise the issue with you. And by raise the issue, I mean take you outside the club for a "chat". Good luck bud. My advice is to use the fedora to guard your pretty face while you're getting kicked on the ground.
My game might be horrid. You can even assume I've never kissed a girl. However, unlike you, I have enough street experience/social acuity to know how the real world works, and what you can and can't get away with. Unless you are a mobster or a titan, you will not be getting away with hitting on someone's girlfriend in front of them, and especially at a place like a club.
PS. I've beaten and been beaten in a boxing ring on multiple occasions (by people probably literally two times your size), but I have the common sense to have never been involved in a street fight. If you act the way you keyboard jockey, then its only a matter of time for you. And remember, there's no referee in a street fight to stop it when you go down. Is that pussy still worth it?

A variation on this

Ask " What type of car does he drive? "

Girls could think of a name easily but thinking of a car would be much less natural. And every girl knows what type of car her boyfriend drives he she really has one.

and if she comes back quickly with a type of car, you can use that and say something along the lines of "well a car says a lot about a man. Your boyfriend is dependable but not adventuous" then you can go into how going out with you would be adventuous etc

Haha yeah.. Last time I was out hitting on a girl: It was a quick encounter but I noticed interest directly, she said she had a boyfriend, I said "well.. since he's not here right now, why don't we make out "violently" right now". She hesitated but said no- we hugged instead. Her friend peeing behind a bush probably influenced her decision and I don't get pushy in those situations..

I'm not saying I'm a good player myself. I'm just saying I can imagine ppl with more social acuity than me chatting up a girl a bit in front of her bf. If her bf likes you, it can be a pleasant experience. Some ppl here say acknowledge the bf and then ignore him. I don't think that's wise. The kind of 'superior man' I imagine some good players to be would disarm both the bf and the gf. I've never done anything like that but I know being liked by her friends is important. So I agree with you in that blatantly hitting on the girl in front of the guy while trying to completely shut him out and ignore him, would not be a smart move.

i go with "Oh yea?" followed by a condescending hi-5, "you want a cookie?" or "hows that workin out for ya?", then game as normal but work in some strawman. I don't ever whip my dick out to try and trump a bf, just comes Across as attention needing and seeking validation.

However, when i can tell it was a bs line, I will ramp up kino a little faster.

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This is why I love living in a right to carry state where I have the freedom to carry a gun! I don't have the time nor the patience to just talk with, mess around / compete with, or use too much energy to physically teach someone who is disrespectful and selfish enough to try to steal from me and knock me down for his own personal gain that this is not the right thing to do. If you have total disregard for me as a person and are willing to f*ck up something that's good between me and my girl for your own personal happiness, then I also have the right to do whatever makes me feel good in response as well without caring about how it affects you or how you feel as a person. Right?

Like Dr Dre said in his song "say what you say" with Eminem,
"You f*ck my night up I'mma f*ck up your day...."
(You can google the lyrics to see what the next line says, by the way. Not sure if it's appropriate to post here.)





BUT



Lets say the boyfriend is not around. That's a different story. Whatever happens when the other person is not around is pretty much what it is. This is why when I'm with any girl that I like and things are going well, I try to be THE BEST man I can for her to make it harder for any other guy to have a chance. Anytime I get close to a girl I like, I make sure I do my best to be so so good that I automatically ruin it for any other guy who tries to steal her. But if they still manage to get her (and keep her long term) in the end, then obviously they are better off together since they both fulfill each other's personal needs more.


By the way, I wouldn't shoot anyone (well I surely hope I'll never have to). I think just knowing that I have an open carry would be sufficient enough to indirectly teach someone not to disrespect me in front of my girl. And yes, I know that if I live in an open carry state then this means others could do the same and carry to. It's not really about carrying a gun. I was simply just trying to make a point; F*ck with me disrespectfully and try to steal my joy for your own personal happiness and you deserve to be taught a permanent life lesson.



I meet a girl who has a boyfriend, I move on. Many times there's another girl who has just as much potential to be mine a few seconds or minutes away that I could talk to just around the corner. If the boyfriend is not around and it's super super obvious that she and I are connecting on a deeper level, then I may flirt, keep it fun and run some game; I'll show her what she could have and leave it up to her to decide where she wants to be. If she becomes confused and it gets to the point where she can't decide between me and the other guy, I may "help her over to my side of the fence." But this would never happen if her boyfriend was around from the get go because I'd have enough respect to leave it alone. Therefore, I would never discover how much I connect with the girl if the boyfriend was there. However, if the unlikely scenario happens where a girl comes on to me in front of her boyfriend, I will not decline.... and I'll just leave it at that for now.

Have a good day folks.

After she says she has a bf just say "and I have a fish" gets at least a smile cracked everytime!

To do this infront of the bf, you tell the girl to introduce you to the bf as "This is my shopping buddy [insert your name]" or "This is my gay friend [insert name]". The boyfriend will be reluctant to cock block you because he is not trusting the girl if he did. Then FTC to the boy friend and say, "2 minutes ... 2 minutes ... I just want to catch up with her." Then isolate her... muahahahhahahaha!

But, you have to be smart, of course, by asking the logisitical question, immediately after you open, saying, "Who are you here with and how do you know them?" ....

This is RSD style ^_^!

Every time I post on this board I'm reminded how many aspies go in to PUA. Hitting on another man's girlfriend in front of him is the equivalent of you slapping him in public. It is the most blatant challenge you can throw to another man. If you don't think there are consequences for behavior like that, it means 1. you've never done it, and 2. you probably suffer from aspergers or 3. You are a well known mobster.
If you think that this works because you've done it, then I suggest you stop hitting on whales at bronycon and comicon and try this on a real HB at a club. Let us know how it goes.

I first saw this off an infield footage by Julien from RSD. He used it on the actress from Dexter, Rita (aka: Julie Benz) with her husband right there beside them. I think she is pretty hot... But, maybe she is a whale or a bronycon or comicon to others :p.... But, they probably hired her to play that role ... and then put that footage on their product to lie to their customers like me .... damn I am such a fool for falling for it .... hahaha

Hehehe ... I have been trying it. I try whenever I have the chance, to uglies, to fatties, to HBs ...

Consider why it would work. The girl is introducing you .... why would the boy friend go against her trusts? But, hahaha ... you guys decide if it works or not. Try it out ^_^! I promise amazing results!

How on earth are you going to get a girl you've never met to introduce you as her shopping buddy when you haven't had time in private?

In the book The Game, Mystery hit on some girl in a bar in Serbia(?) by isolating her from her supposed bf and his buddies. While trying to leave the bar with her the guy pulled out his gun. Or was about to. Mystery bluffed his way out by saying that the magic trick he had done to a bottle, he could do to the guy's braincells as well. The guy let him go.

I think that falls in the category of being a well known mobster, lol.

Check out RSD ...

You use an Opener called the hand of God. It's when you stick out your hand towards a girl and she grabs it. When she grabs it you pull her in close towards you. By her grabbing your hand shows compliance to everyone watching you. To do this you have to fully assume that this will work. It can't be half ass attempt to do it. Hence then name the "hand of God" ... It's like when you stick out your hand you are partying a sea of clouds and all she see is God in front of her. Here is an infield footage at 11:15 minutes of the hand of God...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFTR9jNkeCg

But, instead of telling the girl "Who are you her with and how do you know them" ... you replace it with "Introduce me as you Gay Friend [Insert name] ..."

This all happens with in like 30 seconds of the approach!