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PostPosted: Sun Jul 14, 2013 3:32 pm 
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I've learned somewhere on the forum that the conversation is 90% me talking, 10% girl talking (or something like that).
Where did you learn this BS?

Also, you completely misunderstood what I told you. Instead of asking boring interview-like questions to the girls, engage them in a real conversation, and if you ask a question, ask about something that provokes emotions.
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 14, 2013 7:16 pm 
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Okay I haven't read the entire thing I admit, but what I see here is that it clearly states that you only talk more in the beginning of the interaction and then your goal should be to turn it around. Which might be accurate I don't know, I haven't really thought about how much I talk and how much the women I pick-up talk. But this just seems common sense to me because of the dynamics going on a pick-up situation. First you introduce yourself and talk to her and use your words and body language to present an attractive agenda. And you should notice when enough is enough and let her work for you too, and be engaged in the conversation. And that works best with emotional stuff. In which you can sneak in sexual things to help you with escalation.

I have to admit again, I have not thought about this yet, and this is yet again only a proof that the basics and experience are a lot more important than thinking about details. Let me just break it down for you to understand what I am saying here...

How to open... How to convey an attractive agenda... How to get her engaged in the conversation... This is basic stuff which I have learned mostly on the field, the material only reduced my trial and error trip because I knew what I should be looking for.

I talk 90% in the beginning, then later I turn it around to the other way around... This is detail. One that doesn't really matter because if you did the basics right and there is both a sexual and a deeper connection, the interaction should be flowing naturally and you wouldn't have to think about things like this, just enjoy yourself and let dynamics do the hardwork for you.

I don't know how much you go out, or how long have you been doing this, but I can tell that you have a road ahead of you. Focus on improving your weakspots in the game. Right now it's clearly transitioning from the opener.

This is the first part of the pick-up where you really need to put your game out there because opening is really easy once you get past AA. As you will talk with more women and gather more experience you will find out that transitioning isn't that hard either. It just takes a little bit more perception to notice your errors because when you're opening you only say a few words and you can be more conscious about your body language, while here really, it will become tiring if you always think about your posture and stuff like that and meanwhile trying to hold an interesting convo. I hope I make sense to you. Wish you luck on your journey, bro!

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