I'm meeting her next weekend. I'll see her on Tuesday too, probably, but only for rehearsal, and I have to leave right after. I might drop a comment on the coming weekend, to keep her on her toes. Some ideas on what to do besides the photoshoot? I learned some card tricks that freak people out (I've had people genuinely believing me that I was psychic), I'm probably going to try some of these. Any other suggestions (besides the massage of course)? I don't want it to go like that cheap porn stuff where a "model agent" tells a "random stranger" that he'll make her famous, he just needs some pics

Oh, and she started to randomly text me such as "I hope you're in a lecture right now and your cell rings really loudly!", you know, that banter which we usually had, but now she starts initiating it. She also suggested to go out for dinner together (just the two of us, she explicitly mentioned that). Not really sure what I've done to make her do this, but I'm pleased with the development

Should I bring something to drink? Might help to maintain the privacy of being in her room (still living with her parents)... I thought of white wine. Suggestions?

LOL... negging? wine? the old "massage trade"? smh...

This girl wants to fuck you dude. It's obvious. This was never about pictures. She thought the idea was hot, and that you were cute enough to have some fun with. If you keep fucking around she'll see that you're a pussy and that will be the end. Kiss her next time you see her.

Here's what I'd do. Get her in a sexy outfit. Have her pose in a sexy pose. Then say no no, like this, and walk up and position her with your hands, and then slowly take her by the waist and kiss her.

OR have her pose with her eyes closed. Walk up and kiss her.

Or have her pose with her back to you, then say, "Ok don't move." Walk up and kiss her neck from behind while slowly putting your arms around her.

None of this is necessary - you could just kiss next time you are face to face and having a pleasant moment. But it seems like you are lacking some courage and you think you need to use a pretext. Plus each technique would be a fun surprise.

THIS EXACTLY!!!! ^^^^

I was reading these responses and fucking Brian beat me to what I was gonna say... (-_-)

Whatever at least I dont have to type it out now, haha.
Seriously though, follow his advice. I would do the same thing. She definitely wants to fuck you. How many times have you heard of girls turning a playful random idea of taking pictures into multiple private housebound encounters with a man????.... Exactly. None.

Just go for it, and good luck. Keep us posted, too.

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She wants you man! Every post I've read I just keep wanting to tell you that you're in!!

There's only so many IOIs she can give and chances she can give you to kiss her before she thinks you just want to be friends with her.

Make a move now or forever hold your peace, lol.

Alright, so this is my strategy for the weekend:

Like you said, Brian, I'll go in for the kiss during the photoshoot. IOIs have multiplied in the meantime, I don't want to lose time by setting up another date (which she already suggested even xD). I have to keep in mind to lead her, I might try to establish some sort of model&photographer roleplay.
LJBF is to be avoided at all costs. I don't know how far I'll be going on that day, but k-close is the least. I'll have my logistics ready. Considering the massage (yeah Brian I know, cheap ), I thought of using it as some sort of push-pull-thing. Depending on how things are going after the kiss, I might tell her to finish the photoshoot, and if it pleases me, she'll get her massage, which could enable me to further escalate. Opinions on that?

I'll see her tomorrow night too, but that's just rehearsals... No time for talks or escalation. I'll give her 100 bucks though (last performance's pay), I'll just stick it into her bra, that might even help xD After that, I'll freeze her until, say, 24h before the encounter.

Thanks for all the input and encouragement, you guys are brilliant

This has become like a movie now I really wanna see how this pans out and ends haha! Good luck buddy!

Glad I'm contributing to the general entertainment

This is going very good mate! Keep us updated!

So there's another small update, nothing big, but might be worth mentioning...

The whole date slightly turned into a 'meet the parents'-thing. Like I said, she invited me for Teriyaki at her place, and apparently, her parents (+ maybe her brothers) will be there too. It doesn't really scare me, but I'm not exactly sure how I should deal with it. Usually, that parents-generation likes me, since I'm neither an alcoholic nor a stoner and I actually pursue something in my life. However, we've got a slightly special case here: I've met her parents before, very briefly. She threw a small party at her place last year, and I was bartending then. I brought my collection of spirits along, which I picked up a few days later. So basically, I met her parents while picking up a whole crate of booze. I didn't really talk with them, just shook hands and that's it, off I went.
Any tips, maybe? Could be that I need to correct the picture of me being a threat for her daughter (i.e., turning her into an alcoholic)? I'm fairly knowledgeable when it comes to spirits, so I might be able to brush it off if the topic pops up. I'll try to avoid the classic dangerous topics such as religion or politics, of course. Should I gently DHV to her family? I know it sounds like I'm overthinking it, but I don't want a minor obstacle to make me trip in this.

You're setting yourself up for failure. Just relax dude. Avoid bad topics, and drab topics of conversation as you said, but dont be a dancing monkey either. If you get the chance to DHV to her parents by some random chance outta the blue, than ya, do it, but at the same time, stop stressing. I know this sounds weird, but try having an attitude about yourself as if this experience is nothing new. It's like you've already slept with this girl and this is just another game night with the family sort of thing. Trust me, you'll come off as more genuine. Chat up the parents with fun and interesting conversation if you can. You wanna show this girl that you're not their as her pet. I'm not saying thats the vibe you're giving off, I'm just saying is all. Ya know?

On top of that, it's also good to show her how social you are, and that you don't need her in your company to have a good time. It's almost like you ignore her until they all leave, except, you're not really ignoring her, you're just giving all of your attention to everybody else. Hope this helps!!!

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From what I read, she wants you and you are definitely in.

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I'm not quite sure where to start... the beginning will do.

I went to her place, had lunch with her, talked for a few moments. She then suggested to do the shooting outdoors, since the lighting was very good... I agreed (might have been wrong after all), so we did the shoot near a small pond; I aIso played the 5 questions game on her (I LOST! First time ever) and did the Cube. kinoed her quite a bit after we got back and then went for the kiss... She dodged it (ended up kissing her cheek), although there were many IOIs from her. Luckily, it did not make things awkward, so I just shook it off. We then watched TV for a while. Later on, I proposed a massage that I still owed her, she happily agreed. Long story short, I went from massaging to kino, carressing her face, went for the kiss again, she dodged it. Now I'm not a guy who gives up. When I left, I tried to kiss her goodbye, she dodged again.

Still, I'm a bit confused. She's been giving me IOIs constantly! I think she's gone stale as a target, but I still wonder why this didn't work... I'd even fit into her Cube (the horse was right next to her ladder; we've been friends for quite some time). Maybe she wants to play the dating game; I'm not much of a fan of this idea though.

The next step is probably freezing her constantly. If she brings up the dinner date idea again, I might be up for that. However, I'm not investing more time and effort just now. I'll meet her in our weekly rehearsals... any tips on how to handle that? Oh, and can you guys tell me where I screwed up?

Cheers x

Honestly man, I still think she really likes you. She pulled away from the kisses, but she accepted the massage, which means she feels comfortable around you. She probably just doesn't wanna risk being used. This is classic anti slut defense. You did good man. You went for the kiss 3 times!!! But this isn't over yet....

No. She wants to see if you're the real deal man. I think a freeze out would be the right thing to do. Don't try and get to physical either for a bit. I don't think I'd go to dinner with her either...

As for rehearsals, just act as if nothing happened with the whole kiss thing. Remain completely unaffected by it and just act how you normally act around her so that she sees that what happened didn't phase you.

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Btw, what happened each time you tried to kiss her and got the cheek? Did she just turn away each time and not say a word? Or was she like, "yea don't kiss me"?

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See, the 'being physical'-part is exactly what makes this girl difficult to read. We've played in a big drama two years ago, where everyone would be a tad more physical, massages (through clothes though) were not that out of the ordinary after a long day of rehearsals. Also, she joined the improv group I lead, where we sometimes have to be pretty physical (hell, we've improvised a full gay wedding!). The 1 on 1 situation makes it more personal, but being touched isn't all that new.

I shall freeze her out like planned. As for having dinner with her, I won't be free until next month, probably, which is when I celebrate my birthday... no dates on a birthday! But yeah, when I tried to kiss her, she would just turn away and not react. I seem to have a bit of a kino privilege. She doesn't mind me touching her butt, while she reacts rather strongly on others doing it, even playfullly. Gaming friends is harder than strangers