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What's wrong about her mentioning her ex? Aparently she has some experience in life. Since i look at pick up as a journey i personally am very attracted to girls that have more life experience than me. You'll learn and progress much more from a girl that is experienced with men than some unexperienced virgin.
My exgf that i still have contact with, dates other guys and she always tells me about these dates. She always mentions me in the dates and there are two types of reactions these guys have.
AFC reaction (she looks at the guy as a child)
- Don't want to talk about the ex (you come across as insecure because you are afraid of competiton of her exes)
- Tell her you want to call her ex. (you are clearly effected/threatened by her having an ex)
- Convince her you are better than her exes (You apparently have something to prove to her)
A MANs Reaction (She's attracted to these reactions and thinks about you as a man)
- Don't fear the topic of her exes.
- Let her be herself around you and accept her history with other guys.
- Don't feel threatened, ask questions like; "why did you break up?" and "What kind of a guy was he" and "What did they like about you?"(gives you info about her)
- Look at her as a source of PU information. What did her exes do right/wrong is gold to you as a PUA
I'm personally very interested in all the story's girls have about other guys. You learn so much from them. Many girls start to notice you are interested in them and are intelligent enought to understand you use them too improve yourself. What happens is they stop talking about it even if i insist they talk about it.
Enjoy her presence! And remember they are EXES for a reason. No competition! You have nothing to prove to her. Don't even try to prove you are cooler/have more experience in life. Just assume you are an addition to her life!!!
I like these routines because if its a shit test bf routine she is trying to give me I can call her out on it. Plus it gives her a chance emote with me. For the most part I just ignore the bf comments but very now and then they do keep a run on going with it. If they won't shut up about it I guess it wouldn't hurt to turn that into a conversation thread and try to move past it.