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Right this girl has text me again after like 3 weeks of no contact, asking how I am and what ive been up to. I guess this is the cycle starting again? How should I play it?
I guess shes just looking for attention?
less texting, when you text, have a goal in mind besides, HURR DURR IMA GAME THIS GIRL ON THE PHONE, invite her out and do it in person, if she flakes, she is a waste of time, you just ping her once every 1-2 weeks, until you become a regular part of her life and she sometimes has text convos with you, when she is doing the contact your attention is in high demand with her, so you have a poker hand to play with, don't try to build rapport or ''game'' her over the phone, the phone is for invites, get her out with you, then your goal is make her comfortable being alone with you, then your goal is getting her to make out with you, then get her naked, for the love of god I hope you can figure it out past that,
if you can't get that to happen and ''problems'' keep arising, then she is simply not into you and no amount of ''game'' at your current level will change this, it would take an actual shift in your personality/looks/style/lifestyle to change this