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Thanks for the advice willedward. I keep bumping into another problem. We'll be making plans to hang out and she'll make it seem like she's super down then at the end she'll be like "OK cool I'll let you know" this has happened to me with multiple girls. What would you recommend to get them to finalize the plans instead of just saying that. Also when a girl says that how should I respond?
The way it sounds is that
you are the one chasing, and she is the one being chased.
This is a position you definitely DO NOT want to put yourself in, just because you don't.
So instead, you want to flip the script and kill any sign that you are trying to get on with her or take
her out.
The best way to do this is instead of making "plans" and make this seem like you're taking her
out on a date,
INVITE her to come with you somewhere.
For example, let's say you need to buy a shirt, you can say to her,
"Hey tomorrow I'm going to buy
a shirt...I would love a female opinion, want to join?"
And if she says
"I'll let you know", then say
"Well if you're busy I'll manage..."
The purpose or the frame is that you'll be already doing something, so you don't NEED her.
Even better situation is to
invite her to something, like a party, where other people are going as well, especially
if other women go with you.
So for example,
"Hey me and 2 girl-friends of mine are going to this party, want to join us? "
But if that's not your thing, you can also use a technique called
"The triangle".
It's kind of manipulative technique, but it's very effective.
What you basically do is you create an illusion that
another woman or a group of women
is interested in you.
Women are weird. They want what they can't get, and when they get it they don't want it anymore.
The triangle is a very powerful technique, that virtually guarantees the girl will start chasing you.
So for example,
start talking to her about other women that you're seeing. Tell her about a date you
had the other day with a girl who turned out to be kind of weird...
Talk about how some woman at the office left you a note on your desk, sprayed with perfume...and how
now it feels kind of weird talking with her and pretending nothing is happening.
But I would recommend, that instead of lying, you
actually GO OUT and meet new women, and THEN tell
her about it. You'll be more authentic and the whole thing will probably feel less weird for you.
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