The hottest girls on my college campus tend to congregate in my campus's huge library. I can go up to them and talk, find something situation to key on, but the issue is how do I build attraction in this situation? Often times, we talk, build rapport, but then the conversation fizzles out. What are some good things to do/say when this happens? Usually this is before number closing might be a good idea. I go with my gut on when number closing is a good idea, usually after 5+ minutes and a good laugh. You want to end on a high note.

College game is about social circle game, dont try to go picking up girls in your campus that is not who you want to be (The pick up guy)

The easiest way to build attraction in a social environment is to create a social circle for yourself that is filled with people that appreciate you and that will put a good word for you and build you up. At the same time, you want friends that you can say good things about: He's an amazing writer, she is the smartest person i know, etc.

Girls like men that can say good things about the people they surround themselves with because it shows that you have chosen them to be in your life for good reason and therefore you are in control, are proud of your friends, and have a positive view of life, witch indicates you probably live a good life and you are a cool guy.

Usually it's much better to be the leader of your group, but if that is not your role there is no shame in that.

So if your social circle is not 100% men, and your male friends are cool, sooner or later one of your female friends will ask you to party together, of will agree when you ask her, and she will bring friends, you will too, and your social circle grows.

The more people you know the better.

When you preparty dont go for anyone in particular, dont focus on the hot girl, dont set a target.
Your objective is to chill the fuck down, and do one of two things: Bring the fun up (suggest a fun drinking game you know) or help whoever is trying to bring the fun up. that simple.

that is your job for the "Getting drunk" face of the pre-game.

After you guys are all drunk, start flirting with the girls, but dont try to get kissed or anything. its only after, at the party, that you do go for the girl you liked the most. Dance with her and slowly escalate until you can manage to put her hands in your arms without it being weird and grab her by the waist, and pull her in, look her in the eyes while smiling, then carefully push her back, and keep dancing. Repeat 3 or 4 times and if she hasnt left then kiss her.

That's what i've always used, although i find girls from my same college to be way way more flaky than girls from other colleges in my city. The US bust be different though, here in Argentina we have all colleges in the capital, very near to each other...

hope this helps bro.

Jason

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