A little background, then onto the main point. About a month ago, i had just gotten out of an LTR and wanted to fool around. I didn't know of "game" or who neil strauss or mystery was a month ago. After weeks of "sarging" (didn't know the word then, and it was more me just standing awkwardly around a bar waiting for a chance to indirect open.) I realized that i was failing miserably. I had slept with 8 women in my life, all very attractive. the problem was, they knew me well, and came from friend circles, i'd only ever really "picked up" one woman in my life. So after failing for a month i said fuck it. walked straight into a bar and bee-lined towards the hottest girl there. it worked. even without game, it worked. We played pool and built rapport and kissed early on in the night. This girl was incredibly attractive, and a bit mysterious. Day 2: met and walked around town with her and her friend. her friend left and she came back to mine later after drinks. Looking back, i was beta as fuck during the whole date...nervous, etc. Anyway, i tried to pull her into my bedroom after we had drinks and kissed on my balcony, and she said: i want to get to know you first. I didn't push her any further.Day 3 we had plans for an evening coffee and walk through the park. it poured rain during our walk, we kept going anyway. We had some drinks later and it took me almost the whole date to kiss her again. I was nervous Her: guess that wine finally did you in. We started making out on the floor and she got weirded out when i put my hand up her shirt. Her:that might be too much, i don't know if i'm ready for that. Day 4: she came over late after work (1am) and we went to my bedroom to watch a movie since my roommate was using the living room. We were tired, and i offered her to stay. i didn't try to fuck her, but we violently made out and dry humped. Felt like middle school. I didn't try to fuck her because she had shot me down twice, and i figured showing that i'd ask her to stay and not try to fuck would make her feel more secure. After that, i tried to make plans and she flaked, then stopped responding altogether. The last thing i texted her was 'ya know, if you didn't want to hang anymore, you could have just said it.'

I did a little facebook research after this (i'm not a creeper, just figured something else was going on, and i was right), and saw she just had a boyfriend that moved across the country 2 days before we met, and i guess they broke up because of distance. i think she may have been feeling guilty. ANYWAY...after weeks of obsessively studying social dynamics and game, i realize i could have made the fclose happen with what little skills i've learned since.

my question is, could i recover from this? we haven't spoken in 2-3 weeks. i want one more chance to meet with her, and show her i'm not the same person. I'm much more confident with women now. I have other prospects currently, but this one was incredibly hot, and now that i know more about game and female psychology, i want one more shot. Does anyone have any good texts that could help me reignite things? I know i left on a bad note....i cringe about the whole situation and how fucking beta i was really.

Your game was rusty, no big deal.

You pulled her, you can pull another.

I think you realize now that she WOULD have fucked you by Day #2, by Day #4 sh was EXPECTING to fuck you.

What stopped you was some LMR at #2, it made you gun shy at #3 and #4 when she WANTED your cock! And you let her DOWN.

Learn how to deal with 'last minute resistance'.

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Now the question.
Possibly ..... if you don't dedicate yourself to it, you crazy FB stalker!

Continue to pull other girls.

Send a random text.

Example; "Today I saw something that reminded me of you......" dots and all.

DO NOT. I repeat, DO NOT EVER send another text, unless she responds.

Here is why this is a good re-opener. It's so open ended. And fill of curiosity.

Worry about that if you get a response.

Example; "Don't worry, I flushed and everything went back to normal."

Either way response or not, fucking carry on with your life, and new found freedom.

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Perfect advice. I know exactly where i went wrong and you're exactly right. I was gun shy, and the night she slept in my bed with me, i knew she wanted to fuck, but i 'played it cool' and didn't pressure her. Oh well, I guess I have more sarging to do and lesson learned.