| To avoid driving one of my mates crazy with this, I decided to give him a break, and ask around for opinions here.
I'll give a bit of backstory and context, but otherwise, just skip to the basic deal down below!
This is happening in Copenhagen, in Denmark. Both me and the girl are in our late twenties.
Me and a girl met about 2 weeks ago, after work on a Friday. Was sitting outside the office enjoying the weather and having a few beers with coworkers, and she was doing the same (from an office in the building next to us). We hit it off fairly quickly, and as my coworkers went home, she invited me to keep partying the night away with their group, as I did. A lot of joking going around, jumping locations, periods of just me and her hanging out, then going back to the group, etc. There was some light touching/flirting going on, like flirting around with fingers, little nose rubs where you almost kiss, joking about getting a divorce and who would get custody of the children, those sorts of things.
We might actually have made out, but we both ended up getting horribly wasted at the last part of the night, due to too many shots, so frankly, I don't remember. But we both definitely had a good night.
We're both in roughly marketing areas, job wise, and both work for fairly impressive companies, with pretty solid jobs - "lower upper class", if that makes sense. We're both pretty ambitious, and good at it too.
Hope I'm not sounding snobby, just trying to show that this isn't some back-alley scenario with 17 year olds that work in fast food chains.
Here's the basic deal:
Met girl. Had a good night. Been texting for a week, set up a date, she had to cancel due to having rush work on weekends.
At that point we had been texting probably an average of 3 texts each, each day, for about a week. Nothing super flirty, but she was more than willing to meet up for drinks.
However, after the rush work during the weekend, she suddenly completely stopped texting. During the day we were texting, and she was saying if she managed to finish up early, we should still head out, but if not, she would definitely treat me to drinks soon. I humorously asked her to hurry the f' up.
After that, suddenly, no response. Fast forward to Wednesday, and I send her another text. While I would have preferred to wait on her, I also wanted to keep the momentum going we had. I send her a message asking how the work went, and a random joke about dying from stress.
Now, nearing the end of the day after that, still no reply. And I'm pretty confused.
Apart from being confused, my problem is that I don't want to keep texting her, without her replying back. But at the same time, I'm a little "wtf o_O" on the whole situation, and wondering why she suddenly completely cut off contact. I know they also moved offices this monday (just to further down the street, really, just bigger buildings), but the phone number shows up just fine at the new place (Denmark has public phone records of most numbers).
Thoughts? Advice? Ideas?
Well, anything is appreciated really.
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