Okay kind of long but would like some advice.

28th sept. Met hb in town, k close, number close
29th sept. MSG back and forth good banter, see her in town again, goes all weird (her drunkenness I think)

MSG back and forth then

3rd oct. Hb comes over hang out watch movies in bed and we had sex (good performance as well)

Back and forth texting

8th oct. Meet up for dinner, kino, k close

Back and forth msg

Organise for Sunday 13 oct breakfast at 11

11am comes around - I wait till 11:15am
I msg
'I can only assume you are dead, my condolences to your family'

Hb 'I...am still drinking. I am aware I need help. Help me'

I ignore; 2 hours later

Hb 'your bad at helping'

I haven't replied and it is now 2 days later with no message from her either ..

Any idea on how to swing this back or is it done?

Dude, she stood you up to drink right through to 11 am?

Why would you even want to swing it back. Her priorities seem pretty clear...

you fucked up when you invited her for dinner after you smashed. I think she wanted to keep it simple call/hook up, but your playing all these weird text games...

You can hit her up and say drinks at my place or wait for her to hit you up.

-B