4th August 13. Sarge report. Bournemouth night out.

Attribute: Going out with strong intent.
Clubbing with friends, I went out with the intent right from the beginning of the night. The girls that I was speaking to at the start were mainly below HB6, but this only helped to warm me for nicer chicks later on. Solid warm-up even when the group I was out with were not opening or even bothered about opening.
RSD have a video about how a night can be lost in the beginning of a night by not taking action or by rationalising ‘bomb outs’, 1st HB is rationalised, and another, then everyone will be given a reason. Just open no matter what the outcome and consequence. This is warm-up and nothing else. This night after this one, was another night out in Bournemouth. This night I didn’t go out with any intent and when I wanted to open girls I started to get anxiety and hesitate over speaking with girls. If you wait until you are ready to open it will be too late.

Attribute: Pushing on until the end of the night.
This is an important attribute as most people, including myself, with tent to feel tired and lazy and will often not try very hard. I must be different and push at the end of the night as hard as i did at the beginning of the night. Kim HB7.5 was literally the last pull of the night, this ended in a make-out, #close and was converted into a F-close the next night.

Sarging throughout the night:
>Getting physical – getting physical with Spanish chick even when she puts up resistance and it puts her outside of her comfort zone – working to find a way that she felt good with (comfort in physicality).
>Trolling stuck up girls in VIP section (funny) – lead to interaction and get them out of their ivory castle.
>Instant texts after number close – (RSD ref) use these on the night to establish some rapport and inform of name/establish contact. An easy text to her after a #close is “Eltino x”. this frames her to respond with something.

Kim HB7.5 – Day2
>Enthusiasm – could have tried harder to say goodbye to her friends
>Venue changing - moved her to two venues for drinks/dancing, one venue for food.
>Taking responsibility and Leading – after food I told her that “we’re going back to yours to chill and listen to some music” (she just agreed).