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PostPosted: Wed Aug 21, 2013 11:07 am 
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After my relationship ended some months ago, I realized I had far too few women in my social circle. I mostly have male friends, but I genuinly like to be around girls aswell.
I have been working on myself for some time now, and it has really improved my game. I'm still at a pretty novice stage, but I'm taking steps and constantly trying to push my comfort zone.

I have a rule that I should take the hardest way out of a social interaction (meaning I'll start talking to a girl close to me instead of not doing it etc.).
So last day I was hanging around in the city and a girl walked past me. I stood next to some information thingy that she tried to read, but I kinda felt like she was checking me out at the same time.
We started talking. I got the feeling that she felt it was kinda funny-weird, because I talked to her like it was the most normal thing in the world. Throughout the conversation I felt I could see attraction in her eyes, so I had the confidence to move on and not end it straight away. After some time we had to part and she was holding eye contact when walking away, as if she didn't really want to.

To get back on subject, what would be a natural way to get more in touch with this girl? Should I have asked for her phonenumber? I was proud of myself too have pushed my comfort zone by talking to a complete stranger and I really got the feeling that the girl had a good experience. So I kinda didn't want to ruin the whole interaction by becoming needy.
But I need to start weaving more females into my life. Not just to get laid, I don't stress on that too much as I know it will come in due time, but for the friendships and training.

Maybe someone have been in a similar situation in their life and have some tips? How would you go about getting a phonenumber in this situation or a similar one? Or should I have asked for her Facebook, in that case how? How do I get more women in my life?

Kinda long post I know. I'm very excited about the whole community, because it's so good to see progress after putting in the work. This is kinda sub-question but, I have been working mostly on myself: Clothes, health, fitness, social skills, my career, plans, goals etc etc. I'm still not very good at social media, Facebook in perticular. When is it socially accepted to add people? How do I build a good profile? How do I potray the great me in real life onto this media? Does anyone have any guidelines or like a guide I can read to get up to pair on this stuff?

Thank you for reading my post and maybe answering some of my questions :D


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 21, 2013 12:05 pm 
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You could have asked to go for a coffee with you, then arrange a date like a private drink together of something.

Or, the obvious thing to do will be to get the phone number. Common sense really, what else IS there to do in that situation apart from my 1st suggestion?

A similar thing happened to me, but at the timr I'd been working on my game hardcore, took her for a hot chocolate, asked her if she could help me take my bags of shopping back to my apartment, then was plain sailing as soon as came to the apartment..

Doing this kinda stuff in the same hour you meet someone is totally realistic, not all the time its like this but it happens, there is no such thing as a 7 hour rule and all that bollocks

It sounds like you have worked on everything on yourself, except for game and perhaps brushed it under the rug because it requires a lot of balls to seduce women, which is quite common I have found in this community, even if its their main priority to make them happy.

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