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So here's what's going on.
There's this lady I know A. and she is very interesting, even for a LTR. Intelligent, beautiful, nice person, the full package.
I was introduced to her by a friend of hers I went with few years ago- since then we haven't been to bed again with this one, always flirting and making out and whatever but nothing heavy.
One time we began seeing each other a bit more often and then I saw IOIs from her. A friend of hers also came and told me " A. really likes you- she wants you" I smiled and said "how do you know?" she said " trust me, I know my friend. I see how she behaves to you". But then I decided not to do it, can't remember for which reason(perhaps her friend again? Can't really remember).
Quite some time passed and we met again recently. She came home, stayed until late, I teased her a bit, we talked about relationship problems of a common friend, I learned that she is alone now(and so am I- it's important for me, I refuse to flirt women in relationship, there's plenty of free ones out there). So I told her that we shall meet again soon- she'll take me out for a nice walk as I work a lot at this time and she will help me relax a bit. I didn't ask her, I just told her it will happen, she accepted immediately. It's difficult to find time for this as we are both pretty busy, two appointments so far were postponed and I started feeling impatient- also because of the fear that if I let it stretch in time too much and deal with other girls in the mean time she can easily come next time and tell me about her new boyfriend. Now it's a good opportunity as both of us are single. So I pushed it a bit and called her again and arranged it for next week. She also expressed interest in having a session in my training room when she came here- I have a training room at home with mats and I do all kinds of stuff there, martial arts, yoga, massage, just anything around the body and she is a yoga teacher herself. I many times nail girls in there after offering them a massage session. She is comfortable around me and we hug every time we see us but it's a bit friendly so far, I need to make it more erotic and sexy but gradually.
So the questions are, is there any chance to get this one? Dropping her the first time is a bit dangerous- other girls didn't accept it so positively so far when I rejected them. Is there a possibility I am in the friend zone? Do I just need to escalate and it's all OK and in track? I separated some time ago and my game is seriously numb now, trying to get it back together- I try to neg them but I end up insulting them, I forgot how to tease and flirt, there's some general disfunction here also in reading IOIs.
Any help and coaching will be appreciated.
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