Hi guys, just a quick question. Looking for some feedback/advice. I have a female friend who is married to a guy I went to high school with. She is also an aquaintance of my wife. They are not friends, they just know each other. Over the last year or so she has been chatting with me off and on through facebook. There was some mutual flirting but nothing serious and I brushed it off. About two weeks ago she made a comment about tanning and I told her I do airbrush tanning, and I'd be happy to oblige. She wanted me to text her a pic of someone I had airbrushed. (I don't really do airbrush tanning, I just wanted to get her number) So, she sent me her number. Ever since then, we have been texting every day, all day.

It started out that she could only text in the mornings while she was at work because she didnt think her husband would like it if he knew she was texting me. Now it has progressed to the point where she sends me multiple pictures of herself, and continues to text me all day until her husband gets home, and even then she will still text when she thinks she is safe.

I have been able to keep her interest by telling her how beautiful she is and how great I think she is ( she said she doesnt get that from her husband, but she is happy in her relationship) So here is my question. This has been going on up until today. The last message I received from her was Sunday evening. Nothing all day Monday which would be the first day in over a week that I have not heard from her. I figured its better to ignore her and let her text me back first. Just looking for some feedback on this situation, or any pointers to keep it going.

Thanks!

Ive had similar experiences before, and sometimes it turns out that the women is just enjoying the thrill of being flirty and getting attention from someone other than her husband. You might find that if you were to make a move things would quickly turn cold. So you really have to approach with caution. My advice really would be to just keep calibrating. Keep pushing further with the flirting over txts and see how far you can take it. If she becomes uncomfortable, go for a freeze out. You'll find she'l txt you again coz she misses the attention.

Also you could try meeting up with her. Dont ask her out on a date, but tell her you're going somewhere and see if she'd join you. It really doesnt matter where. And then when you're actually with her you can get a better sense of where she's at. You can then start escalating kino etc.

If everything does go well and you seduce her, as she is married be prepared for LMR (Last Minute Resistance). So i'd suggest reading up on some ways to get through it. How you deal with LMR can make or break the evenings entertainment.

Hope all goes well mate. Ive also got married friends, and i'd give my left bollock for her!

Thanks for the reply. She finally sent me a message this morning. She confirmed that she really has it bad for me and she didnt know what she was feeling, but she was feeling uncomfortable about texting because she felt like she was sneaking around as her husband would be mad if he found out. So basically we can still chat on facebook on occasion, but that's all. I feel like I screwed something up here somehow. I had her eating out of the palm of my hand and all of a sudden it just evaporated. Should I go for the freeze out now and wait for her to get tired of her routine and start texting me again?

Do you really wanna waste their and your marriage for a simple lay? is this the only option you got? i cant even describe the amounts of red flags with this

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Why are you in a pick up forum? Why not find yourself a "how to hook up with anybody who I think offers me the best chances at getting my dick wet" forum?

Because ^this is what is going on. Every day, over 100 girls cross you path on the street, in the park, in restaurants, etc. . . all it takes is a quick conversation, a phone number, and a date, and you can fuck nearly anybody out there. But no. . . instead, you are going after a married girl who happens to be somewhat flirtatious with you online. You haven't written anything that shows you are crazy about her, or that she is extremely attractive . . . The only thing you wrote amounts to. . . "Dur, hurh, hurh. . . I really think I can get my dick wet with this girl. Whooo hooo and heee haaaaw!" - Dude. . . this is sad. Add the fact that you've known this girl for a year. You know the husband from 'high school'. Add the fact then you lied to hopefully get into her pants and this isn't only sad, it's absolutely pathetic.

You're in a pick up forum. ^This isn't pick up. ^This is loser-ville. Start from scratch. Learn openers. Learn conversation. Go get some hobbies. Go make some friends. Go get some dates. Get out of your mom's basement. Go get a life.

+1. i didnt wanna elaborate but, you've made a homerun to the point. seriously if there's one thing i hate about the game, it's picking up women that are out of bounds. fair play if she lied about her relationshit status and slept with you without you knowing, but that's not whats happening here is it? nswdw40 dig deep. this is some lamesause shit. you're better than this

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