Hey bro. I'm not any good at this stuff, and I only started out recently but I read in a thread somewhere that you should make a list of 10 qualities you want in a woman.
For example (my list):
*respectful of other people
*feminine
*is very passionate about a certain thing in her life (be it music, dancing or whatever)
*caring
*can fully enjoy the moment
*confident
*not naive
*not selfish (selfless)
*unique in her own way
*adventurous
Screening for adventurous
Ask her wether she's been here before, and be a bit playful. Ask her something like "So you thought it'd be fun to come here, or did your friends have to drag here you here?
".
I'll try to find the thread for you where this is explained.
Edit: Found it. All credits go to Chief.
Quote:
The next time you're talking to a woman, screen her for these qualities. Ask her questions that you think will give her an opportunity to demonstrate these qualities to you. For example, if "kind" is on you list, do not ask direct questions like "Are you kind?" Instead, lead the conversation so that she might tell you about a time when she did something kind. This may even give you an opportunity to tell a story from your life, etc. Your list pretty much takes care of the conversation on its own as it keeps generating things to talk about.
As an example, here is something I might say:
(in reference to the "open-minded" and "adventurous" points on my list)
Chief: When's the last time you came here?
Girl: Oh, this is my first time!
Chief: Nice. Do you often go to new places or did your friends have to drag you out here kicking and screaming?
Girl: Haha I actually love going to new places.
Chief: I like you. You're not afraid of new experiences.
Girl: Hell no, I love new experiences!
Chief: Have you ever been to (exciting place)?
...You get the idea.
Only way to get good at this is practice, practice and practice.
CHAT